First you have to know who you like most then you can decide.
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2 years, 1 month ago (46 minutes after post)
you have to decide 1 or the orther , dont us the new guy as a space filler .its not nice ,i know i had it done to me, know my head and life are a mess !
Sometimes gorgeous men gives more headaches and heartaches.
hey lonely heart,are you saying she shouldnt give this new guy a chance because he is gorgeous?
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Thats not what i meant.. all im saying is she have to know him more than just look at his physical appearance.
whats inside that counts more.
i say you follow what your heart is saying.. not how many boxes they each tick.
do what’s best for you.
well-thats good advice lonelyheart.personally i feel people hang on to their exes bcos they are scared of meeting new people.and that ofcourse complicates life.how is anyone supposed to find the perfect person for themselves if they keep holding on to old relationships and past memory and never allowing themselves to move on?
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see thats what i’m thinking am i hanging on and will i regret it in the future and say why didnt i get on with my life.but then again it would be horrible without him. Last night me and my friends made a list of traits that are essential in the perfect guy like personality, trustworthy etc. my ex scored 8 and the new guy scored 9, but that doesnt help coz i love my ex. but could i fall for this guy???
moving on sounds to be the right thing but will i end up messing him around like anonymous said and want my ex back???
The only person that could answer this is yourself, not your friends or anybody else. You will know this by heart.
Just decide one and you cant have both. Otherwise you might end up hurting yourself.
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2 years, 1 month ago (1 hour, 17 minutes after post)
please dont play them ! decide before the new guys feeling get deep !
your right, i’v done that before and really hurt someone. i think i’m gona give my ex another chance, but there is still the distance.Why is everything hard about relationships. the ex told me to see other people to find out what i really want what do you make of that?
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2 years, 1 month ago (1 hour, 24 minutes after post)
sounds like his not 100% sure of how deep his feelings are ! how long have you known new guy and has he told you how he feels towards you?
Do what your heart says. If you will be with your ex then YES distance will be a problem again.
Do your ex a favor, go and meet other people. Just be happy and as much as possible try not to hurt anyone by giving them hopes which you are not sure of.
yeah i dont wanna hurt anyone i think if i see the new guy anymore he will get deep feelings, they both know about eachother but my ex doesnt kno how close i’v got to the new guy. it would really hurt him
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2 years, 1 month ago (1 hour, 35 minutes after post)
i do hope his not in to deep already ! good luck !
i liked the new guy for ages but was with him about 3 weeks ago and we’v been txtn non stop.he asked me why i dont have a bf and i told him i still had feelings for my ex. So its not really messing wit him coz he knos. last night i said i cant go wit him again, i need to clear my head.
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Thanks Anonymous
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2 years, 1 month ago (1 hour, 44 minutes after post)
3 weeks is not long , just please dont change your mind and get back in touch with new guy ,she done this to me 4 times over 3 and half months by this time it was to late i was hooked ,
ALL THE BEST MISS EM,
I wish you happiness Miss Em. Just take things slowly but surely =)
The word ’shallow’ comes to mind !
i dont think its shallow to want to end up with the right person, the word narrow minded just spang to my mind just there needtomail
thanks lonelyheart for your help it was nice to meet you, hey your lonelyheart no more:)
Anytime Miss Em. yeah was thinking what to change my nick =)
Be happy, stay happy. Just be true to yourself, your ex and that new guy. Check him out =P hehe
Hey ! Miss Em. Go read the post “who is a christian and what is the difference between
the kingdom of god and the church today”. and tell me if you still feel the same way ….. GO ON !
I dare you.
You should ask your heat & let your heart decide not your mind .
I think you are still in love with your ex so go for him .. you two live far from eachother , so what ? every relationship has its obstacles that you should over come not to give up the whole relationship .
Love ( I mean mutual love ) is very precious & hard to find so if you found it fight for it.
Is there anything the two of you can do about the distance? Would you be commited enough to each other to discuss a possible move for one or both of you? Or would you be willing to move closer after an amount of time? You say your wild about each other, but do you really love each other? And is that love strong enough to make some sacrifices? If not, than maybe it is worth it to move on. Your love for your careers may be stronger than your love for each other.
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Hey there, i guess you no longer need advice on this then? Would really appreciate if you could give me a females opinion on my situation x
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