I have aspergers, are there any other aspies (people with aspergers syndrome, or PDD, or autistic like characteristics or quirks) out there?
???
Btw i also have adhd. Mental health disorders seems to be the only catagory G-d is generous to me in.
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i’m a hand flapping aspie wooooo!!!!!!!
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I may just be being stupid, but what are aspies?
people with aspergers…not me, but i know someone who has it
my b/f has it, mild but there, I love his quirks, apparently it was far worse when he was younger.
I’d be interested to know more about it. I read the wikipedia article, but find that such a description is not quite enough for me. I have been diagnosed with ADD (misdiagnosed in my opinion). I feel that some of the symptoms relating to intersts, speach, and social awkwardness I can very well relate to. I am somewhat curious if there are varying degrees of severity in AS.
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i have aspergers, are there any other aspies out there????
(Only people who have aspergers or know someone who stimmys will get this.)
If your an aspie and u know it flap your hands.
*flap flap*
If your an aspie and u know it flap your hands
*flap flap*
If your an aspie and u know it and u really want to show it,
If your an aspie and u know it flap your hands!!!!!!
LOL
betta wrote:
I’d be interested to know more about it. I read the wikipedia article, but find that such a description is not quite enough for me. I have been diagnosed with ADD (misdiagnosed in my opinion). I feel that some of the symptoms relating to intersts, speach, and social awkwardness I can very well relate to. I am somewhat curious if there are varying degrees of severity in AS.
I actually have adhd and aspergers. Yes the severity of anything related to the autism spectrem can vary from low functioning, non-verbal, and mental retardation, to high-functioing mensa member, with a very neurotypical based mind. Contact me with any questions u have on the disorder, I would be happy to answer them.
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does it affect ur relationships with ppl and make u feel like a loner???
I definetly am a loner. Not only are people with aspergers less drawn to socialization with others, but it is also harder for us to read faces and social cues, so alot of times we overstep boundries without intentionaly doing so. Our odd quirks, gestures, and behaviors often lead others to torment us, so unfortunatley many of us just give up on the Human race. Everyone please feel free to ask me any questions on autism or aspergers u may have, I know of any wonderful resources that I can also give you. Don’t feel ashamed to ask.
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Freak, Oprah just had a show on a book written by a celeb mom about autism. What she found when her child was diagnosed was that a very high percentage of autistic children, among other disease processes, have yeast infections throughout their bodies and brains. She had her son tested and sure enough he also had it. She eliminated whey and dairy products from his diet and saw immediate improvement within 3 days. Check it out.
What was the name of the book? I would be interested in reading it.
freakofnature you shouldn’t give up on all people.
I watch my daughter (she is non-verbal) and sometimes wish that I could join her
in her little world. She seems so happy and carefree.
Freakofnature, I have some of the symptoms, but not all associated with Aspergers. I seem to have secondary symptoms of ADD sometimes too. Your description of your social interactions really sounds a lot similar to me. However I feel pretty strongly against having categories for “mild” versions of learning disabilities. In cases such as mine I now just look at myself as a unique individual with my own learning style. In cases of severe autism or ADD or other learning disorders I can understand the need for a diagnosis, however for many of us the problem is a system that can’t cope with the fact that people learn differently. A long time ago these children were labeled stupid and weren’t able to get ahead. Now they are labeled instead with a learning disability. This can be helpful if it helps them get the help they need, but it also can lead to lower expectations, and not seeing the individual behind the “disorder”. Personally, when I was labeled with ADD I found that the “help” I was given was always a set of suggestions on how do deal with problems that are supposed to affect me because I have ADD, only I had different problems. The diagnosis led me to getting less effective help because the help I was given seemed to be directed towards they typical ADD person instead of me as an individual.
There is some debate, I understand it, towards whether certain diagnosis are just categorizing people or children on the edges of bell curves with regards to inherent strengths and weaknesses. I think the scientific community now sees these as legitimate disorders but I am not yet quite convinced.
I agree i have been in the same situation, and I understad what it feels like. I do agree with you, i just did not word it properly becase i was in a rush. By the way I have heard of guliten and Casein free diets. However, I am vegetarian, and boderline anemic, so i think I need to get my iron level straightened out, before eliminating any aspects of my diet.
The one thing you can do to help many of these types of problems is take an omega 3 supplement. I take one that is derived from fish but uses “molecular distillation” to separate it from any mercury that may be in the fish’s bodies. You can also take a supplement made from small fish such as herring, or eat sardines a couple times a weak, or get your omaga 3s from a grain source such as flax or flax oil.
My boyfriend had given up on having a relationship with anyone because of his Aspergers, luckily I persisted and we are now happy together if not normal. He has to spend a lot of time in his own space so we don’t get to spend as long together as a normal couple I think, or certainly as much time as we could. He is pretty high-functioning, loves nearly all books rather than being too specialised, as I’ve said he has it mild and sometimes in some ways it shows more than others. He doesn’t go for large gatherings or even small ones if there are too many people he does know.
Oh and he is vegan.
my brothers an aspie! yeah. he is better than he used to be. it is hard cuz i think he gets used by ppl. cuz he doent know they are doing it. iam very protective over him. well i guess its cuz hes my brother but yeah.
freakofnature wrote:
(Only people who have aspergers or know someone who stimmys will get this.)If your an aspie and u know it flap your hands.
*flap flap*
If your an aspie and u know it flap your hands
*flap flap*
If your an aspie and u know it and u really want to show it,
If your an aspie and u know it flap your hands!!!!!!
LOL
hahahaha so much like my bro
u should see him doing his tae kwon do grading, he gets so frustraited
green_bedsocks wrote:
My boyfriend had given up on having a relationship with anyone because of his Aspergers, luckily I persisted and we are now happy together if not normal. He has to spend a lot of time in his own space so we don’t get to spend as long together as a normal couple I think, or certainly as much time as we could. He is pretty high-functioning, loves nearly all books rather than being too specialised, as I’ve said he has it mild and sometimes in some ways it shows more than others. He doesn’t go for large gatherings or even small ones if there are too many people he does know.
Oh and he is vegan.
thank u for treating him as a normal human being, being in his situation I can not even express to you how much it means. He is likly to have low self-esteem, so it’s very important for you to support him. O and tell him that a veggie aspie=cool squared.
I just going to see internet sites and see if diet can help me with my mood swings so i just don’t feel down or up but middle of the road and stop me getting angry at nothing getting obsessive (osessions cause me lots of trouble) may be not get rid rid aspergers but so my mood is controlled
Ever since you posted this I have wondered if I have it. Someday I’ll have to meet one to understand how it is exactly.
Hi,
my daughter has asperger’s. We live near Philadelphia, but we haven’t lived here long. Can anyone suggest a clinician that can provide care particularly for anxiety and insominia? Any other useful resources in the area?
Thanks,
John
hi my names lisa
and i have aspergers
im 16 and only have been recently diagnosed with it
everything in my life so far has been so ****** up ive never understood why no one saw the world in the same way as i did
and why i was always considered to be “different”
now i do and i can start to udnerstand myself
i may seem pretty normal at first but when u start to get to know me better u can read staright through my shell and see all my insecuritys
im not good in big groups and i can only handle small groups
aspergers has effected all my relationships with friends and boyfriends
i have been hurt alot in my life
but my current bf is too amazing for words and is trying to understand this syndrome so that he can understand me better
and why i do the things i do
i really want to meet mroe people with this syndrome
x
jlpym wrote:
Hi,my daughter has asperger’s. We live near Philadelphia, but we haven’t lived here long. Can anyone suggest a clinician that can provide care particularly for anxiety and insominia? Any other useful resources in the area?
Thanks,
John
yes if anyone finds out please send me the information 2, I am looking for one as well.
Hi there! I’m so happy to see such an open discussion on this subject, my foster cousin has aspergers, and so many people treat it like a taboo subject to bring up. He might be my favourite person in the world.
FreakofNature, I have a couple of questions. And I also want to thank you for being so helpful to everyone on this thread.
I’m a writing major in University, and I’m trying to write a story about a little boy with aspergers, who’s put in a special needs class with at least 20 other people, mostly children with ADHD and English as Second Language students. They’re all about 7-10 years old. My cousin goes to a school with a special program for kids with similar learning challenges, but in the (tiny) town I grew up in in Saskatchewan, there definitely wasn’t that option. They basically just stuck all the kids who were different into one big classroom … So I was wondering, put in a situation like that, how do you think a nine-year-old boy would react? Is there anything that might be really challenging for him in an environment like that? Anything that would make it better for him?
Thank you for your time :D
no one understands me, I get into alot of arguments and feel like I need to explain myself about everything I do. Its very frustrating. My mind is foggy. I feel like I’m missing out on life. Everything I do takes forever and no one believes me when I can’t hustle.
Having aspergers is worse than anything I could imagine. I have compaction and I like to be around people. But I look like a pissed as^hole who doesn’t like anyone. When I try to talk to people I can only tell that in short summaries and my conversations end in 2 or 3 mins with everyone. People I’ve known my whole life don’t get me and don’t know how to react to me. I lack the ability to understand 70 percent of what people are talking about. I forget everything and can’t drive or remember directions to places that I go to everyday.
I don’t have ticks or nervous flaps. I look like an ordinary person.
You need to read “The Myth of Neurosis: Overcoming the Illness Excuse” by Dr. Garth Wood. You are normal. Quit worrying about it. Life is too short. You only get one life so don’t waste it by spending precious time fantasizing that there is something wrong with you.
cmfleming11 wrote:
I watch my daughter (she is non-verbal) and sometimes wish that I could join her
in her little world. She seems so happy and carefree.
The world is an escape, but does not mean that she is carefree. When you spend all of your time feeling over stimulated you “world” becomes that one escape that keeps you hanging on.
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