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I need advise on if this decision is a good thing or

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wgriffen offline Verified User (2 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
New Franklin, MO, US | 2 years, 2 months ago (23 minutes after post)

How committed are you to one another? What’s keeping you together? Who pays the bills? Is he a giver or a taker. Which are you? Without a marriage commitment, what is to prevent him from walking away from the relationship at any given moment leaving you alone, penniless, in a place you do not know. It happens every single day. If you are secure in this relationship then seal it with more than just a kiss. Sounds like there are a lot of uncertainties in just what you have said in this post. No wonder you do not know what to do. You asked my advice. Stay put until you are secure in your answers to the questions above. Kick him out until he can provide sufficiently for you and is willing to commit to marriage. Love is not a goofy feeling… It is an ACTION verb. God bless.

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coolie19 offline Verified User (3 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 13 #
Scottsdale, AZ, US | 2 years, 2 months ago (33 minutes after post)

Have you been searching on any websites??

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US | 2 years, 1 month ago (3 weeks, 6 days after post)

i just posted something on your other “i need an apartment asap” well i live in philly but really want to move out asap. it’s home stuff, my dad died. i can’t move out until someone takes over my lease. ifyou see this place you will fall in love with it, i swear everyone does. it’s huge, for an apartment in the city. true. allie
lemme know

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I need advise on if this decision is a good thing or not.
In my last post I was talking about me and my boyfriend needing our own place and are currently living with my mother etc. Well, I live in Jersey, and friend of ours lives in PA (an hour from us) and we are being welcomed to live with his Bass player. He has a friend who drives a van to come get us and the little bag we have. But I don’t know if its a good idea or not. I’m still looking around here but we just found out the apt that we live in now owned by my mom’s friend is being sold. We’ve only been here 2 months. Not even.

If anyone knows of a good site or studio/1 bd room apartment please notify me. Thank you

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