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looking for a guy/girl who wont break my heart like b4.

im 14, i love to have fun, i dont belive in lables, i dont judge ppl as soon as i see them. my love life b4 brought me to tears and cutting, i havent cut in a while though, just trying to find someone who will love me for who i am, who will hold me when im down, wont give up on me, is painent, will love me, and will tell me i am most important to them…but i dont think i will ever find that person.

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zetzer_ offline Verified User (2 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Opa Locka, FL, US | 2 years, 1 month ago (10 minutes after post)

just hope really, establish that to be your goal, that you will find a person that will like you, and also you are probably going thru teenage depression, everyone feels hopeless at that age but you have to live through it to see the better days when you climb out from there.

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ooochies_coochies_la offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
Raleigh, NC, US | 2 years, 1 month ago (17 minutes after post)

Very trus what zeter_ said…And you will for sure find that person one day soon enough. Take Care…..Cya

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Headless Chicken offline Verified User (2 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 1 month ago (58 minutes after post)

You have a love life at 14 !!!??? I was still playing with marbles at that age. Jeeez ! What did I miss out on !

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ooochies_coochies_la offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
Raleigh, NC, US | 2 years, 1 month ago (59 minutes after post)

For sure…Good point needtomail

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hotdog321 offline Verified User (2 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 1 month ago (1 hour, 9 minutes after post)

When you stop looking for love, it will find you in the least possible place you8′d think. Once you do find it, cherish it and keep it nurchered for love is like a flower…nurture it and it will bloom eternally; neglect it and it will surely die.

ooochies_coochies_la offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
Raleigh, NC, US | 2 years, 1 month ago (1 hour, 15 minutes after post)

So true hotdog321…so true

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stormgurl9 offline Verified User (2 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Saint Marys, GA, US | 2 years, 1 month ago (1 hour, 58 minutes after post)

i no wat you mean gurl im lookin 4 the same thing my ex broke my heart and its hard 4 me to give my heart away cuz i dont want to have a broken heart again it suckz ***

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Leah offline Verified User (2 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
University Place, WA, US | 2 years, 1 month ago (3 hours, 40 minutes after post)

But, don’t date someone just because they like you and you’re flattered, and you think nobody else will like you that way. Don’t settle. Know what you want and stick to it.

If I’d known that I would’ve saved myself from a lot of heartbreak.

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violentbeauty18 offline Verified User (2 years) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Wayland, MI, US | 2 years ago (1 month, 3 weeks after post)

Well first find someone like a close friend that you like. Get their trust and find out if they are worth your love. The right person is out there for you, but you need to look outside the box. If you don’t find the right person don’t give up, they will find you. Once you find someone who is worth your love && trust. Give them ur heart but slowly. So if they end up being a fake you wont get hurt.

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Jeff.Henrikse offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Fairplay, MD, US | 1 year, 11 months ago (2 months, 1 week after post)

I dated someone that reminds me of you when I was about 14, it was rough. She was my first girlfriend. I had a lot of fun with it. She always seemed to be upset and tired to help her the best I could. She use to cut herself too, she said it relaxed her. I guess she had a lot of family troubles and did something she wasn’t suppose to. She is so much different now then she was then, its amazing really. She found someone who seemed to care about her a lot and they have been together since and I have been dating someone else. She doesn’t cut herself anymore and she happy for the most part. So I guess my point is, there is someone who will take you for who you are and will make you feel wonderful. It just takes time to find the right person.

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violentbeauty18 offline Verified User (2 years) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Wayland, MI, US | 1 year, 11 months ago (2 months, 1 week after post)

thank you so much, now I have hope.

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Corpus Christi, TX, US | 1 year, 10 months ago (3 months, 1 week after post)

well im 13 turning 14 and i have been in a serious realationship and it is the best ever.i always have fun with him he always puts a smile to my face no matter what it may be.yea evrybody fights but that is life.but you just have to look for mr.right and believe me he will come just hang in there…….i found him=]

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downtowndaisy offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 10 months ago (3 months, 2 weeks after post)

You’re only 14! Which means what? Well you have your whoooooooole life ahead of you for plenty of guys AND girls to tell you they love you. I know right now it may seem like the end of the world, but it’s not and love will come and go..and to tell you the truth sometimes it’s better being single(something I never understood when I was younger). Oh and you have it better than most people, you atleast have girls AND guys to choose from and not just one or the other… you have much better odds! :) Just take your time and true love will find you.

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666666 offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Pennington, NJ, US | 1 year, 9 months ago (4 months after post)

You have so much to give so don’t let the jerks win.

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amit_wannafrien offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
IN | 1 year, 9 months ago (4 months, 1 week after post)

be happy,
try to look around yourself.
there can be sum1 who will surely understand you.
N tht sum1 can be any1.
Even it can be sum1 who is replying to you.

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Keighley, 45, GB | 1 year, 9 months ago (4 months, 1 week after post)

i wish i could find a girl like that.

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memeory of the addic offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Monroe, WI, US | 1 year, 8 months ago (5 months after post)

hey well dont give up on love, I’m in love with a straight girl but I’m not giving up.
and just so you know, if we lived closer, i would love you… lol

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hello_goodbye offline Unverified User #
Bellflower, CA, US | 1 year, 8 months ago (5 months after post)

As we grow up, we learn that even the
one person that wasn’t supposed to
ever let you down probably will.
You’ll have your heart broken
probably more than once and it will
hurt more every time.
You’ll break hearts too, So
remember how it felt when yours was broken.
You’ll fight with your best friend.
You’ll blame a new love for things an
old one did.
You’ll cry because time is passing
too fast, and you’ll eventually lose
someone you love.
So take too many pictures,
Laugh too much,
And love like you’ve never been hurt.
Because every sixty seconds you spend
upset, is a minute of happiness you’ll never get back.

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hj offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (7 months after post)

you don’t believe in labels yet you call yourself an emo? and you started cutting yourself right after you and your bf broke up? you shouldn’t depend on someone else for happiness. that’s way too much pressure for a potential bf to have. kids these days…

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jayl offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (7 months, 3 weeks after post)

aww sounds like uve had a hard life hng around with alot of boys people you can trust and stick with them for a year or 2 then see ho u like nd dat not trying to sound selfish but dnt decide on bf untill u no there right for you and most of all dont rush into a relationship like i did cause i didnt end well at all xx

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adexbir offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (11 months after post)

I think sometimes is a crime to fall in love….am talking from what i experince in few hours ago. My GF just break my heart.:-(

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kathygarcia353 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 2 weeks ago (1 year, 8 months after post)

Girl, what does not kill makes you stronger. I went through a lot in my tennage years
But handling your emotions gets easier. Focus on yourself and your goals a

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jayl offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 3 weeks ago (1 year, 9 months after post)

Believe me there is someone out there for you x
you have ur whole life ahead of you to find someone and ull find someone very very soon
just make sure you also treat the person right then i doubt they would leave you.
most boiiz r weird they dont take a relationship seriously nd tek it from me knowing im a guy lol but obv im not lyk dem dikheds out dere.
just keep your eyes open nd ur bound to find someone special ;) x

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