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how do u tell ur best friend u love them …
..that u would die for them……and ur hte cload i want to hold onto as i float away …….how do u tell her that?i love her to death and always will but i dont want to loose her
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If she’s you’re best friend, believe me; she already knows.
Also, if your relationship, so far, has been friendship, you can’t just change it. You need to start flirting and changing the nature of the relationship if you want something to change.
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how do u tell some one u love them
i want to tell one of my friends i love them, but i cant, im too embarrassed incase they laugh or say nothings gonna happen
i have been having the same problem. I am in love with my best friend Sessi. We were friends for almost a year. WHen I first saw her I appoached her and started talking to her. the more I knew her, the more i started loving her.WE had everysingle class together. I always kept on thinking about her everyday. She would invite me to her house and I would go with her to pick up her little sister at school. I’ve been thinking about her nonstop for 2 years. Sessi told me we shouldnt be friends anymore. WHen she said that I started crying over the phone. I know everytime I went over to her house, I was always beaten by my parents. After her birthday I couldn’t stop thinking of her. I’ve been trying to avoid her for the rest of the school year, but its hard. I have a class with her and we sprained our ankles and have to use the elevator,and I am a student assistant. I really want to tell her how I feel because my heart has been having physical and emotional pain. I want to talk to her. She means so much to me. It hurts me so much. I always bought her gifts and stuff. For her birthday I gave her 50 dollars ,flowers, and a diamond ring. It hurts so much that she kept the stuff yet i cant even talk to her. When I am alone or in the car, I would always look at her house and think of the memories we had. When I go anywhere with anyone I always thought of sessi. II told her I would do anything to help her but she didnt believe. I love her so please help me. I cant let go of these feelings for her. My heart has a deep wound caused fromm me loving sessi so please help.
you should ask her about how she feels about you and school and ultimately life. let her feel wanted and cared for when she feels down and when she’s lonely. the ONLY way to heal your broken heart is to tell her out front. now i know how hard that sounds, BELIEVE ME!! i had to the same thing from one of my friends! but dont jump to that straight away, take it slow, ask her to movies and ask her questions about her life and don’t be afraid to talk about yours! take it slow and try to be as caring as you can, which i’m sure you already are! but just act like a likeable person and do what feels natural!! good luck buddy =D! i hope everything works out for the best!!
You can not let her know all at once that you all of a sudden love her! BAD MOVE! You need to flirt with her and try to still have the same feelings as friends but more. I know this is odd but I am in the same boat. I have known my best friend for 18 years and have always wondered what it may be like to be with her, but for the past few months these feelings have grown very strong. I am still going thru the motions my self, but trust me, DO NOT LET IT ALL OUT OF THE BAG AT ONCE! Go slow and work your way to it. Hope this helps.
i know how u feel. i went through the same stage as you. i lost a mate when i was 14.i knew my best friend when i was only a baby we went to nursey and grew up in school together,we used to do everything together.we used to phone her every night, and day. to see if she was ok.iknow how u really feel and i want to help you, and i wabt to tell u something. ut best friend will never forget u no matter what happens she will always be ur best friend,she will always remember the things u and her done together.its hard loosing a best friend. its lkie loosing a parent. but i know deep down inside she will always be thing about you,and thinking aout the things u done together. dont be afraid to stay away from her, no matter what happens. maybe send her a letter. or go round to her house and say iam sorry. or say hwo are you. and iam sure she will say am fine. see how use get on. love from karen. my
best friends normally know these things, if u dont want to use words u could hug them, maybe just one arm around them at the start then move onto full hugs. if that doesnt work then just say, if they are your best friends they will understand, best friends arnt much if they laugh at you.
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