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Is it possible to give / receive help if there is “no problem”?

Or must every instance of helping someone have to include some “problematic” issue?

I recently heard the idea that some people recognize 3 kinds of questions:

1. “navigational” — like: “where are my glasses?” “what time is it?” and/or “how do I find help.com?”

2. “informational” — like: “What is the air-speed velocity of an unladen swallow?”

3. “transactional” — like: “Would you be my friend?” and/or “Buy a song”

So far, I have noticed that the vast majority of posts here are of the “I want X” and/or “How do I X” type. Very few people post “I want to help Z by doing Y” (or something like that). Is there some reason why most posts start with questions (needs) rather than “offers”?

It seems to me it would be very useful if there were a way to match offers with requests — I guess the software attempts to do that… — how can we “humans” help? What are the software’s limits? …?

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- Fourthings™ - offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
Ballinteer, 07, IE | 2 years, 1 month ago (17 minutes after post)

I’m confused, what’s your point exactly? You mean offering money or services, because they are very much ignored, also offering help tends to be ignored to, people asks people give, the people asking and giving on this site are the same people…

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xbox changed the tags on this post: they were "Human, friends, Earth's atmosphere, Glasses, Computer software, Match, reason, swallow, IDEA, question" 2 years, 1 month ago.

xbox changed the tags on this post: they were "TS, available, Offer, IDEA, search, jobs, job, Find, Match, question, TS118278, need, Help, Wanted, classified, classifieds, services, questions, Problem, Problems, information, assist, assistance" 2 years, 1 month ago.

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Ballinteer, 07, IE | 2 years, 1 month ago (13 hours, 10 minutes after post)

Well, to be honest I think it works well as it is, I mean people come here to seek help whatever that may be and people also come here to give help. If everyone wishing to help put posts up regularly saying “offering help” or whatever, the site would be bombarded with these posts and ultimately just get in the way of the posts for people who are seeking help. I’m still a bit unsure on what it s you mean exactly, but I think the only updates this site needs is the option to have private posts only available to your friends and the option to take some posts down.

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Bronx, NY, US | 2 years, 1 month ago (1 week, 4 days after post)

iam disable came out a shelter on my own didint like it at all is so sad now i need food and winter cloths can some one help me thank you so much god bless

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Bronx, NY, US | 2 years, 1 month ago (1 week, 4 days after post)

Iam useing someone computer i pray to god some one with a good heart will help me even if is use stuff i dont mine iam simple thank your once again god bless

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Ballinteer, 07, IE | 2 years, 1 month ago (1 week, 4 days after post)

If you want help, write up a post on the main page, then wait for replies.

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xbox changed the tags on this post: they were "TS, available, Offer, IDEA, search, jobs, job, Find, Match, question, TS118278, need, Help, Wanted, classified, classifieds, services, questions, Problem, Problems, information, assist, assistance, Ideas" 2 years ago.

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