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Unless your boyfriend was not a nice person I’m sure he wouldn’t think you were a weak person for telling him how you feel, or feeling the way that you do. Kay? You’ll feel better sharing the burden with him, or having someone close to you know how you feel. You’ll feel supported. Also I think maybe you should take a little break and stop try to get employed and just think about things, get centered again, see a therapist maybe. Take care! = )

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i think u should open ur heart to some one close to even ur boyfriend
im sure he will understand u and stand by u
and i think u need a vacation to think about ur life and have a fresh start

If your boyfriends doesn’t understand your problems then…what kind of boyrfriend is he? Everyone goes through a dark period and you’ll get through it. Never loose hope…never loose faith! Religion isn’t for everyone…but I would really suggest praying. Listen to encouraging music. You also may be depressed. Runs in the family. It’s so much harder to deal with life ….. I can’t immagine mylife with out my medicine.

I’m sure you can find a job. Keep it up. It took me three months to get a stupid job as a waitress in BALTIMORE. It was a good paying job- not at a diner or anything like that. But it’s tough! If you honestly beleive your qualified- then you can find a job!

:(… i feel like that sometimes too. Minus the holding my boyfriend part,lol.

you don’t need religion to feel loved by god, all you have to do is seek it, ask for it, demand it, it’s your gift for the taking and no other person can keep it from you. Reach for it and it will come to like magic.

The reason you seem to be unemployable is because you lack confidence. If you yourself do not feel that you are worthy to work at a job, those around you will pick up the “vibes.” If you work with pride in something you can at least partially become passionate about, confidence should return. Others will pick up on this as well.

You should tell your boyfriend how you feel. If he does indeed believe that this makes you weak or a failure, then he should never have been with you. Nobody thrives if they have to pretend to be someone they aren’t around every other person in the world. Strangers, yes. There’s nothing wrong with the little white lies, but real friends and loved ones should be able to know you. Real friends, you are always good enough for.

When you gather with people you can be comfortable with, they will be your family, too. Love is, as it always has been, the key to happiness.

Love yourself.

Love others.

When each one of us as humans find that our lives do not run or even crawl at the pace we want we turn to an inner depression. You are not alone. Your problem is not your circumstance and its not how employable you are its about your mind set. The truth that successful people don’t want you or me or anyone to really find out is if you want something you must take it. Its yours just grab it. I hate it when what I say seems so cliche but its just how it works.

Listen take some initiative and thrust all those who bring you down out of your life for now. Pick something that you really want to peruse and then get a phone book and call every place in that field asking if they have any openings. No matter your experience and references you will find a place and then when your in the interview just be someone that you would want to hire and dont lie too much they will wave you forward. At that point you will have begun to succeed and your confidence will grow.

Basically get in the game and kick a** you will be fine start right now.

Ps talk to your bf about this or you are just lying to him.

Thank you for your replies. In terms of qualifications, I have a degree in Physics with Astrophysics, and want to be a physics teacher, so maybe it is the “vibes”. Either way I’ve spent this morning calling, emailing and writing to some more schools, so fingers crossed.
And I’m going to talk to my boyfriend tonight, he deserves to know how I’m feeling.
Thank you all again, I can’t tell you how much I appreciate it.

I’m a bit late in this post, aren’t I…

I’m glad you opened up to us, and sometimes it’s best just to let it all out. You should confide in your boyfriend, he only wants what’s best for you (unless he’s a complete jerk, although I doubt it). And if you’re qualified for employment, all you need to do is go out there, find a job opportunity that interests you, and put on a smile for the interview. :)

Remember, God is there for you. Your boyfriend is there for you. We’re here for you. :D