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Alexis AKA Lexual
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how long do i wait to call after a mediocre date?

so, i posted before about the guys not calling, but then he called and we went out, which was ok, but not great, we got almost no alone time, but there was hella flirting.

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tiedyetee offline Verified User (2 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Hicksville, NY, US | 2 years, 1 month ago (21 minutes after post)

Call when you want to go out with him again, who knows maybe he will want to go out with you before than and give you a call. Do what your heart tells you and don’t be afraid of what it says otherwise you may be stuck saying “coulda shoulda woulda”

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Heyhey, Sav-vay offline Verified User (2 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
Linden, NJ, US | 2 years, 1 month ago (15 hours, 12 minutes after post)

“I don’t regret the things I do. I regret the things I didn’t do when I had a chance.”

It seems that you like this guy, and he likes you, but you just need some more alone time. So give him a call, and see what happens. :)

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Alexis AKA Lexual offline Verified User (2 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Sayre, PA, US | 2 years, 1 month ago (15 hours, 34 minutes after post)

thank you
im going to call him today if i dont hear from him

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Alice N. offline Verified User (2 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 1 month ago (6 days, 11 hours after post)

If he hasn’t called you by the 4 day point call him

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behzad offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Jannatabad, 26, IR | 1 year, 8 months ago (5 months, 1 week after post)

ask him for a lonely date, only you and him

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messr offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (6 months, 1 week after post)

Make sure it’s just him and you; go somewhere where you can really communicate with each other like a bar or restaurant. It’s worth seeing if you have something, call him as soon as you can. Good luck.

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