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You’ve only been together since August and you want to marry him?

Bad move.

What’s your instinct telling you? What do you think is true? If you don’t feel you can trust him, find someone else.

Don’t ever settle. Know what you want. Don’t make anyone your life.

Oh wait, haven’t BEEN TOGETHER since august, haven’t seen each other since then.

Yeah, that’s BS. Just let him go for now and if you belong together he’ll come back.

Being together since June isn’t long enough to decide you wanna be with him forever, either.

Call him reaffirm the status quo. You said you were staying together until august when you went back to school. you cant cheat on someone if your not together. If you affirm your still together than you can question it. Ask him why he doesn’t call you so much anymore and let him tell you why.

Love can be very complicated at times.. I have felt this way many times and because of me acussing and judging the situation before knowing everything I pushed him away! Have you ever heard of the saying “Those that acuse are the guilty one’s” well men tend to think this way and it’s not always fair I know from personal expierence that all my questioning and acusations led him to belive I was the guilty one. Never go by hear say because pople will say about anything to get something they want even if that is tearing a relationship apart so they can have a chance with you or your boyfriend for that matter. Let thigs go naturally be patient the truth will eventually be revealed and sometimes the truth hurts and shouldn’t be revealed! Do you honestly want to find out he did because then there really is no hope you’ll never trust him again and that could be the reason why he is denying it because he is afraiod of loosing you!!

u said u already showed him the message so he already knows u have doubts . so just talk to him saying that u miss him so much , and -as a joke-tell him that the fact that he doesnt contact u often increases ur doubts , but dont put it in an accusing way , just make it sound like it is just that u miss him so much , if he is cheating on u, well u will know because he will overreact and if he is not and if he loves u he will tell u he is sorry and give u the real reasons that kept him and will make it up for u

No one can tell you if he truely loves you but him!!! I know its not what you want to hear but everyone has their own oppinions on love and Honestly if you truly love him than TRUST him when he tell’s you he hasn’t. You dont want to hear he has do you? So why put so much effort into making him tell you that he has when He could be telling you the truth already!

You know what, you have to decide for yourself.

Do you feel in your gut that he’s telling the truth? Then go ahead.
If you feel like he’s lying he probably is.

omg… im sorry. in my history, i had not only a husband, but a boyfriend cheating on me and both times.. they always told me the same thing. even with proof such as their messaging archives.. in which i had proof of what they were saying and one time, even a man called my house and screamed on the answering machine telling my exhusband to stop sending his wife money and stuff… he still denied it… trust me honey, if he isnt calling, isnt in your life and people are giving you the same stories.. then he is cheating.. dump him.. you deserve better.