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How do you know if a girl still likes you?

and you use to being going out but you broke up but your still really close friends

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Leah offline Verified User (2 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
University Place, WA, US | 2 years, 1 month ago (0 minutes after post)

Ask her.

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juststayforeve offline Verified User (2 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Nashville, TN, US | 2 years, 1 month ago (1 minute after post)

i agree with leah, ask her. it’s the only way you’ll ever know for sure

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deathbow2134213 offline Verified User (2 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Halifax, NS, CA | 2 years, 1 month ago (1 minute after post)

is there any other way? i dont want to hurt her, or myself

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juststayforeve offline Verified User (2 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Nashville, TN, US | 2 years, 1 month ago (2 minutes after post)

how could you hurt her just by asking?

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deathbow2134213 offline Verified User (2 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Halifax, NS, CA | 2 years, 1 month ago (3 minutes after post)

your right, but it could make it ocward betwen us…
if she says she dosnt

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deathbow2134213 offline Verified User (2 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Halifax, NS, CA | 2 years, 1 month ago (3 minutes after post)

but…yes….i think your right…thankyou

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synthetic_overdose offline Verified User (2 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Rochester, NY, US | 2 years, 1 month ago (4 minutes after post)

Does she call you randomly to see how you are doing and then when you ask how she is doing with her new bf she just complains?

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deathbow2134213 offline Verified User (2 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Halifax, NS, CA | 2 years, 1 month ago (5 minutes after post)

well, she dosnt have a bf…but she calls alot

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juststayforeve offline Verified User (2 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Nashville, TN, US | 2 years, 1 month ago (5 minutes after post)

well do you like her? there are always awkward times in friendships like this…i would just try your best to atleast stay friends.

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deathbow2134213 offline Verified User (2 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Halifax, NS, CA | 2 years, 1 month ago (6 minutes after post)

i love her

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Leah offline Verified User (2 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
University Place, WA, US | 2 years, 1 month ago (6 minutes after post)

but if you’re close friends that doesn’t mean anything.

You can’t tell if someone likes you with ambiguous signs like that

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Leah offline Verified User (2 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
University Place, WA, US | 2 years, 1 month ago (6 minutes after post)

(the calling thing, i mean)

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synthetic_overdose offline Verified User (2 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Rochester, NY, US | 2 years, 1 month ago (7 minutes after post)

More than likely she still has feelings for you if she calls just to see how u are or to tell you one of her accomplishments

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Leah offline Verified User (2 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
University Place, WA, US | 2 years, 1 month ago (8 minutes after post)

synthetic_overdose wrote:
More than likely she still has feelings for you if she calls just to see how u are or to tell you one of her accomplishments

I do that with guys I’m not interested in romantically.

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juststayforeve offline Verified User (2 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Nashville, TN, US | 2 years, 1 month ago (10 minutes after post)

you’ll have to be careful there, i find once you finally let yourself be lost in someone, it only hurts more. but then without the risk it wouldn’t be called love.

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samlrob offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
US | 2 years, 1 month ago (17 minutes after post)

When she looks at u does she smile a lot? Have u ever caught her staring at you? If you look for little clues like those then you will be able to tell. Then you’ll be pretty sure about that n when u ask her u will feel more comfortable.

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juststayforeve offline Verified User (2 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Nashville, TN, US | 2 years, 1 month ago (27 minutes after post)

ask her how she feels sometime, you don’t have to say how you feel upfront…if you’re a afraid of rejection, just know that maybe this just isn’t the right time for her.
it sounds like she likes you enough that she wouldn’t be horrible about it, and if she does like you back…remember that things don’t have to change completely when you both know your feelings for eachother, and the awkwardness usually only lasts a few days or so, so it’s best just to get it over with
still…if things don’t turn out, being friends for a long while has got to be better than nothing at all right?
let us know how it goes..& goodluck

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shawanda_58 offline Unverified User #
Rochester, NY, US | 2 years ago (1 month after post)

just ask here dont be scared

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