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Elevators - What an interesting environment they are!

I’m always amazed at what goes on inside an elevator. So much can be learned about the other people in the elevator, and so much is said about you, given how we all behave inside an elevator.

Don’t you find it amazing that we always somehow manage to find a way to stand exactly equa-distant from each other… And then, when someone exits, everyone kinda moves around to remain equa-distant. We never face each other (e.g. stand on opposite sides of the box). A lot of the time, we’ll stop talking with a friend, even if it’s about some mundane thing. We never stand right in the corner. We nenver all face directly foward, rather, we face towards the magic sliding doors. When we’re alone in the elevator, and then it stops at a floor to let someone in, we always adjust ourselves, and our position, to make sure the newcomer can easily find a comfortable place to stand… Very strange. :-)

You can really tell a lot about a person based on how they behave in an elevator. I think I’ll start a new branch of psychology called Nuroelevatorosis. :-)

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issybelle offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 1 month ago (2 minutes after post)

i don’t follow all your elevator rules. =P
but yes, humans have this strange way of personal space about them.

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Saggezza offline Verified User (2 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
Vancouver, BC, CA | 2 years, 1 month ago (2 minutes after post)

I’m curious… Which ones don’t you follow?

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An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 1 month ago (5 minutes after post)

one thing for sure.i get dizzy inside elevators. and another one, i can’t stand the distance.lol

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Richard Cor de Lyon offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 20 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 1 month ago (7 minutes after post)

LMAO… I think we can tell alot about YOU writing this post!

LOL… OK.. I’ll admit my fascination with elevators too. No one ever really talks. And you’re right about never facing someone… I’ve never really noticed that. I’m going to make it a personal test to stand in the elevator FACING someone… I’ll still give them the equa-distant space… but stand face to face… wonder what will happen?!

~Richard :)

PS did you ever JUMP in the elevator as it comes to it’s jerking stop??? Feels kinda like your flying :)

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issybelle offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 1 month ago (7 minutes after post)

Yes I move so we’re equa distant. Except if it’s family or close friends.
I always stand on opposite sides of the box (i.e. face people).
Depends on what we’re talking about and who enters (as for the stopping of the talking thing).
I love standing in the corner.
Yes, why yes, I DO like to face the doors. But I move around.
And it seems nice to adjust when we stop for someone.

Do you notice that even though people are suppose to exit before the others enter, there is always a pause from the ones in the elevator.

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gimli offline Verified User (3 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Marietta, GA, US | 2 years, 1 month ago (14 minutes after post)

It would be an interesting project to construct elevators in differing cultures and chronicle people’s behaviors. Would people in the Amazon jungle or Papua New Guinea behave the same as Canadians or Americans or Europeans?

Can you provide the funds for this research, Sagezza? I’m willing to do the field work….

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OccultPizz offline Verified User (2 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Spokane, WA, US | 2 years, 1 month ago (1 hour, 5 minutes after post)

I guess I am an enigma! I am the guy who gets on the elevator and says, “How’s it going?” I have a tendancy to scare people because I thrust them out of their comfort zone ~chuckles~.

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Richard Cor de Lyon offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 20 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 1 month ago (1 hour, 44 minutes after post)

Ahhhh OP… another person that watched the moive Patch Adams!

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Saggezza offline Verified User (2 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
Vancouver, BC, CA | 2 years, 1 month ago (1 hour, 49 minutes after post)

I just tried something… I stood right in the middle of the elevator, and it stopped at a floor so someone could get in. I just stood there, right in the middle, gave a ‘hello nod’, but didn’t move… They didn’t know what to do. hehehe. They didn’t know where to go, or stand. They were made so uncomfortable because they could only get (no more than) two feet away from me… Which, I suppose, is unacceptable when there’s only two people in the box. LOL. Either that or I smelt really bad. hehehe

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Holton, KS, US | 1 year, 11 months ago (1 month, 3 weeks after post)

Great subject! I’ve not thought about to too much…just follow the rules haha. But I don’t remember anyone telling me the rules before I followed them, so where did they come from. To short a time in transition to start a conversation, and any conversation that you were having (with a fellow rider if you arrived together) has already been interrupted by the insane feeling that the elevator must arrive RIGHT NOW…WHERE IS IT. It’s alot like the customary greeting during a short transaction such as walking by someone you know and saying “good morning” or “how are you” or the same happening at a register somewhere. You just don’t start a conversation because it’s understood that is not the purpose of the meeting.

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