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I don’t fit in.

I go to college and I feel almost totally disconnected. I had a bunch of friends last year, and we have all grown disconnected, because we are all into different **** right now. I can’t seem to find any way to fit in or have fun with anyone anymore. How do I reconnect to my friends, to my girlfriend, and to the community that I don’t feel a part of anymore? Will life ever be fun again, or have I grown up to an age where fun doesn’t exist, or if it does, it takes a back seat to everything else in life?
-An Optomist

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kaidragon offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 38 #
Muncie, IN, US | 12 months ago (4 minutes after post)

Your not alone.
Try working on your ppl skillz.
I try to meet ppl at parties nowadays.

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*lilies offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 719 #
An Undisclosed Location | 12 months ago (5 hours, 27 minutes after post)

one does not have to be so popular in order to have a good relationship or to reconnect with friends. a simple text message, a short email or movie dates with a friend or two, or a lovely talk over a cup of hot chocolate drink might start it all. :)

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AAPES2 offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 12 months ago (9 hours, 34 minutes after post)

Maybe the whole back seat thing is the truth

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d_camp_camp offline Unverified User #
Fayetteville, AR, US | 12 months ago (14 hours, 59 minutes after post)

haha. just kidin!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
realy I feal sorry 4 u b/c i at 1 point in time didnt eather but it will get better trust me. good luck.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.

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