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WHEN WLL IT BE MY TURN !
Every time I have a reason to smile its taken away from me. I dont get it, im a good person. My whole life only once do I remeber I was trully happy. for somany years its nothing, I fight so ! HARD but I never get anything. This is so unfair, I know life has its ups and down but mines just downs and nothing. I want friends, Love or at least someone to like me, somthing to wake up to every day, but all it is, is a fight to stay out of rock bottem. I finally meet the first person in my life that likes me (more then a freind) and I was so happy, now I just realized she doesn’t care anymore (only 4 days of happiniess). heart stomped on again. I HATE THIS !!!
I hate looking around seeing people with friends having a good time, or with that special someone while i walk alone. Is it possable some people are not ment to be happy, loved, cared about… just forgotten. I dont know what to do anymore. please cheer me up somebody talk to me, simulate a friend… please ?
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Awww…I know exactly how you feel :(
I’ll be your friend.
Is it possible some people are not ment to be happy, loved, cared about… just forgotten.
No. I don’t believe that. Everyone can be happy, loved, and cared about. Be patient, it will come. Might be a while *shrugs* but don’t give up hope :)
In reality I mean, I want someone to pat my back or just comfort me support me but NO ! im ALWAYS on my own. I have been hoping for 5 years and not for anything big like true love and ****, but a good friend, good times, the small things even but NOTHING i cant stand this anymore !
The people on this sight dont even like me WHAT THE **** IS WRONG with me im some kind of ******* monster!
Again. I know how you feel. Been over 9 years since I had a friend like that.
What things are you interested in? You could try looking through www.meetup.com and seeing if there are any groups near where you live that you would be interested in joining. Maybe you will meet a good friend through there.
The people on this sight dont even like me
How do you know?
Please you have to wait.. we always find that special someone when it is our time u know.. i know this time must be really hard, but maybe its just so you can be stronger emotionally; if you stay with this, if you open up.. there will be so many rewards. Sometimes god will put us through the hardest situations and its just to show us the deeper meaning why we were put through so much pain. I know none of this makes sense but you just have to stay with it.
You know what?
People fail. Bottom Line. If you are looking for someone else to make you happy, it won’t work. I’m not saying that there isn’t value in having the support and love of other people, but if you can’t be happy on your own you probably won’t ever be truly happy.
If you can’t be happy on your own you probably won’t ever be truly happy.
If there was a GOD he would show himself to me and maybe let me sample happiniess that why I lost faith. and Its not that im looking for people to make me happy but just to be happy FOR ONCE ! Ive been alone most of my life its nothing new, and through that time i learned so much about me and who I am. I dont like big crowds but I dont like being alone for so long no human contact no friends nothing.
SEE there u go you’ve learned about yourself.. why don’t you take that and just join a club or something that will help you interact with people. instead of just sitting there waiting for someone to come, why don’t you go to them?? have u heard “if you want mail why don’t you send some first?”
You have the joy of knowing somone likes you, or that your in someones thoughts or bringing life into the world, or that your making a diffrence, or life is going somewere, or you live a stable life or or or i can go on… ill i have is knowing what its liked to get shot stabed mugged loose everything go to jail, heart break and dissapointment.
I always go out trying to meet people thats were I see all this happiniess around me, but im seen as some kind of creature. I must have somekind of curse or somthing.
You know what?? fine. it seems that whatever encouraging statement we give you, you turn it away and say that there is no helping u. If you aren’t even willing to at least take this to mind then what point is there? If you’re negative about everything then there can be no helping you. We can’t just keep telling you that everything will be fine if you aren’t willing to take it and help yourself. Do you want to be sad? because it seems that whatever we do you are so set on how no one will love you and that you’re a creature.
i’m sorry it just seems that positive uplifting does not help.. my friend did the same to me when i was down, and it worked for me.
WAIT! don’t appologis. Im sorry, I really am, i dont like it when people are mad. I am always thinging so negitave im just soo used to it i cant help it. I think it got to me for some reason i feel not so bad.
YES! wow.. it really does work .. I’m so glad now :D
I dont know how to explain it but it did, the part were you were mad whoa ! Well you are good, so what do you think i should do until then ?
lol its all good
do you have any favorite sports? sign up for a team.. dancing.. w/e u like.. they have art clubs, women’s/men’s clubs, SHOpping clubs maybe lol, there are probably a lot of organizations that will help you get involved.
frig i g2g but i’ll be on everyday.. bye
bye and Sorry for the out burst of behavior, like most of us I got a lot of problems well im back to normal, just needed to get some sence knocked into me. One day i’ll be … well you know.
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You were brought into this world alone and alone you will walk away from it. While we walk the earth we are alone… but there is a difference between being alone and being lonely. For even though we are ourself, we are at the same time one with everyone else.
Everyone feels this loneliness you speak of. You are not so special. This is because we yearn to feel the oneness we know exists, but we have forgotten it. So we seek it desperately… and we think mistakenly that if we seek it outside ourself, outside our own soul then we shall find it. Nothing lay outside your soul, save those things you were not meant to understand. Ask the questions of yourself… not of your brother or sister… mother or father… they cannot answer you. Who am I, Why am I here, Where am I going… the most difficult questions are the easiest to come up with… and must needs by answered by your own soul.
Stop thinking you are alone… for you are not, start being. Your life will change in ways you want. For you create everything you want your life to be.
Gawd, I feel the same way as the anonymous who posted this.
You just gotta stay optimistic. Look to the little things in your day that bring about a good memory or something. For me I love to write about anything that pops into my head. Just find something you enjoy doing and, well, do it. As long as you are doing something you like then there’s no downside. Unless its drugs or something like that, then you will die, and dieing is no good.
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