life help: Here is the deal, I’ve been dating this guy off and on

Badass_babygirl69

Trinidad, CO, US

Here is the deal, I’ve been dating this guy off and

on for almost 4 years and every time we have broken up it has been over pretty much the same thing. He has had a lot of problems in his life, with anger managemnet and just trying to stay out of trouble. Well, ever since he turned 18 he has changed into someone that actually cares about his life and dosen’t want to mess it up. We just started dating again within the past month and everything is so amazing. Before we had our problems and everything, but now it seems that most all of those have disappeared. Am I fooling myself into believing that him and I will work? He is such an amazing guy and I can imagen being with him for the rest of my life. I just don’t want to get hurt or hurt him. What do you guys think? Am I just convincing myself it wil work?

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Nowhereman 2 #
Bandeirante, 29, BR | 1 year, 1 month ago (1 minute after post)

People DO mature and change…and that time of life in particular seems to be pivotal…… so, go for it….give it a shot!

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Bandeirante, 29, BR | 1 year, 1 month ago (3 minutes after post)

The fact that you have a SF Giants LOGO on ur profile is the most attractive thing I have seen on this site!!! Cheers…..

da- 6 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (3 minutes after post)

Coming of age is a sobering experience for some people, no long can they shut their eyes to the fact that they need to start taking care of them selves, because it looms right in front of them. I would give this guy one more shot, if all you say is true, that he has changed many things about himself. I say give him a shot at it, if he proves that he can’t handle it, then you should move on, but at lest you will know you gave him a shot.

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ne'e 13 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (27 minutes after post)

I agree as people age they change . I certainly am a different person today than I was at 18 . Give it a chance

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Eugene, OR, US | 1 year, 1 month ago (3 days after post)

I think you should definately give it a shot but if for some reason it doesn’t work out this time don’t go back out again. The same thing will probably happen again.
Hope everything works out! And I agree he probably just matured over time.:)

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dirty_munky6 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 3 weeks ago (8 months, 4 weeks after post)

You are still young! you should just live it up right now or you will regret wasteing your time.

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