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I need help I left my wife 6 years a go and with the time

I realize I love her but she got mary again
and I feel that it is the end of the world…do not know what i am going to do
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viper98926 offline Verified User (5 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Ellensburg, WA, US | 5 years, 7 months ago (1 minute after post)

don’t do anything stupid. it may hurt but you should be happy shes happy if you love her. just try to patch stuff up if you guys aren’t so great and just try to be her friend and in her life again

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Silent.Scream offline Verified User (5 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 5 years, 7 months ago (3 minutes after post)

if you left her once, obviously something was wrong with the relationship. try and find someone else, i think it’s time to move on.

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☆lilies☆ offline Verified User (6 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 5 years, 7 months ago (9 minutes after post)

time to move on, she has moved on herself and happier than she was with you.

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Heyhey, Sav-vay offline Verified User (5 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
Linden, NJ, US | 5 years, 7 months ago (11 minutes after post)

Well, I’m afraid there’s not much you can do here. She’s married someone else, and she seems to be happy…I think it’s time to move on. It will be hard to forget about her, but believe me, you’ll be much better off in the long run. You’ll find someone, I promise!

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mauri offline Verified User (6 years) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Delft, 11, NL | 5 years, 7 months ago (15 minutes after post)

YOU left her SIX years ago! you wanted her to wait for you forever?? be honest, if she wasn’t getting married now.. surely you still wouldn’t want to get back to her.
Too late dude. If you love her, be happy for her and give her your support.. and find your own hapiness from now on, life is not over.

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Richard Cor de Lyon offline Verified User (6 years) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 5 years, 7 months ago (2 hours, 50 minutes after post)

wow… Mauri… that is the harshest I’ve ever heard you. :)

I’m proud of you. And your reply… as always is very wise. I could add nothing to such wisdom and perfection.

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MalusViscus offline Verified User (5 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 5 years, 7 months ago (11 hours, 18 minutes after post)

Well buddy thats rough, but all these other posts are dead on. Just remember the reason you left her. If you honestly love her, you would want her to be happy. Now i know hearing that shes happy with someone else just feels like someones stabbing you in the heart, it hurts ALOT. But six years ago? You might just want her back because you cant have her now. You feel jealous because shes with another man, when you were once that man. It’s hell on earth. But its just as easy to be cold and bitter as it is to move on on look on the bright side of things.

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~Shie~ offline Verified User (5 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Gloversville, NY, US | 5 years, 7 months ago (13 hours, 50 minutes after post)

seeing that you were married to her.. you will always love her…. however you need to respect that she is with someone new… because something did go wrong to end what you had… always remember… there is a reason she is your ex..

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Delft, 11, NL | 5 years, 7 months ago (23 hours, 22 minutes after post)

Thank you Rich! that meant a lot :D

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