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stormgurl9
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i like my boyfriend BUT i like my ex to well i love my ex

well ok this is the story

my ex and i have ben through alot 2gether we have gone out on and off for long amounts of time since the 5th grade and he wuz my first and everything and i love him so much but then this last time that we hooked back up i found out some news that totaly tore my heart to piecse he had to move to kansas and i live in florida so thats really far away and i wuz heart broken no lie and i still have feelings 4 him and he still has feelings for me cuz we talk on myspace and aim and all that stuff but

then theres my new boyfriend hes really sweet and funny and hes like no lie my best friend and he is like in love with me so i mean i dont want to hurt him but then at the same time my feelings 4 my ex are still there

i like them both i just dont no wat to do

wat do i do?????

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Leftwondering offline Verified User (2 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
Hebden Bridge, C2, GB | 2 years, 1 month ago (57 minutes after post)

Take a break from your current boyfriend and decide which one of the two you want to be with. It’s not fair to be with your boyfriend if you are still in love with your ex.

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spiritedsoul offline Verified User (2 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
Sandgate, G5, GB | 2 years, 1 month ago (5 hours, 11 minutes after post)

well, the choice is within u.
if u stay with ur bf, u wil like ur ex, if u go with ur ex, u will like ur bf.
be resonsible for ur happiness. not any boy to be the solution to ur problems. it never works that way.

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Dan TL offline Verified User (2 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
La Mirada, CA, US | 2 years, 1 month ago (14 hours, 42 minutes after post)

Learn who wont crush your heart and is most compatable with you then make your choice.

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i like my boyfriend BUT i like my ex to well i love my ex

wat do i do?????

stormgurl9 offline Verified User (2 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Saint Marys, GA, US | 2 years, 1 month ago (23 hours, 54 minutes after post)

well ok this is the story

my ex and i have ben through alot 2gether we have gone out on and off for long amounts of time since the 5th grade and he wuz my first and everything and i love him so much but then this last time that we hooked back up i found out some news that totaly tore my heart to piecse he had to move to kansas and i live in florida so thats really far away and i wuz heart broken no lie and i still have feelings 4 him and he still has feelings for me cuz we talk on myspace and aim and all that stuff but

then theres my new boyfriend hes really sweet and funny and hes like no lie my best friend and he is like in love with me so i mean i dont want to hurt him but then at the same time my feelings 4 my ex are still there

i like them both i just dont no wat to do

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Dan TL offline Verified User (2 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
La Mirada, CA, US | 2 years, 1 month ago (1 day, 1 hour after post)

Well you discribed your EX as if you two have a stronger connection. Hmm and your BF is in love with you ? Well depends on who you love. Sometimes long distance relationships work when the 2 are in love… and your current BF sounds good to a bestfriend connection is good, things might dramaicly grow between you two. so theres your options i can think or

- Persue EX since there was love between you to, maybe a longdistance realationship, im sure you can work somthing out

- Stay with current BF, things will be simpler and since you two growing connection who knows what it can develop into.

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stormgurl9 offline Verified User (2 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Saint Marys, GA, US | 2 years, 1 month ago (1 day, 10 hours after post)

thnk you

i think ill keep the current one :)

i have tryed the long distance thing and its not the same you no i mean i want to c him and be with him not just hear his voice on the fone its not the same

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Dan TL offline Verified User (2 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
La Mirada, CA, US | 2 years, 1 month ago (1 day, 12 hours after post)

I know what you mean. Good luck with that

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briana_suzan offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 8 months ago (5 months, 3 weeks after post)

i think you should give the long distance relationship another try, i have an auntie who is having a long distance relationship and it is working out…

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