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I hate people.

Everywhere I go, I am humiliated and ridiculed. No one else seems to have this problem. It has ruined my opinion of humanity. Help!

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CrackHacky offline Verified User (2 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Mill Hall, PA, US | 2 years, 1 month ago (1 minute after post)

well stop.

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jcd offline Verified User (2 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 1 month ago (3 minutes after post)

I’m not too fond of most people I meet, either.

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Dan DeColumna offline Verified User (3 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 1 month ago (5 minutes after post)

The term is Misanthrope. Or, in other words, a hater of mankind. Since you say “Help!”, I’m assuming you don’t WANT to hate others, you just find yourself doing so anyway. First of all, lower your expectations. You can’t get shocked or irate if you expect people to be scumbags, and you may be pleasantly surprised. Secondly, just let the anger go. Hating them does no good. Just form a mental picture of a box that says “My hate” on the side of it, and then picture yourself mailing it oneway to BFE. The whole stupid count-down from 10 thing works too, but it usually makes me feel stupid as well when I do it, so I try not to.
Best of luck,
Dan

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nintendude offline Verified User (2 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Alma, AR, US | 2 years, 1 month ago (6 minutes after post)

People are jerks sometimes,but thats just part of being human.Ya people somtimes ridicule what they dont understand or what they dissagree with, its natural.

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The Chronicler offline Verified User (2 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Newcastle Under Lyme, N4, GB | 2 years, 1 month ago (7 minutes after post)

Thanks for the advice and encouragement everyone.

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Dan DeColumna offline Verified User (3 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 1 month ago (8 minutes after post)

No problem

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~LazyDaze~ offline Verified User (2 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 241 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 1 month ago (9 minutes after post)

There are some people out there that are good and nice, but usually they are the ones wh are over looked and forgotten. People tend to remember the people they don’t like for longer, like a bully in school or a boss that was strict etc.
Maybe you have just met more than your fair share of nasty people, I hope that changes for you though.

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heavensdream4 offline Verified User (2 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Fairfax, VA, US | 2 years, 1 month ago (12 minutes after post)

i don’t think there is a person out there who likes everyone, all you can do is hold up your head and realize this is your life and you control it, and if you don’t want someone in your life shut them out

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ĐaNi HaŦeS ŸoŪ online Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Help.com Volunteer Moderator Long Term User Shouts: 188 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 1 month ago (13 minutes after post)

i hate people too, their all idiots even me

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~LazyDaze~ offline Verified User (2 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 241 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 1 month ago (17 minutes after post)

heavensdream4 wrote:
i don’t think there is a person out there who likes everyone, all you can do is hold up your head and realize this is your life and you control it, and if you don’t want someone in your life shut them out

So true, no one can be liked by everyone, and if there is such a person it makes you wonder how much they are paying everyone, and I want in!

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Xeno Dragon offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 74 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 1 month ago (25 minutes after post)

I don’t think it’s ruining your opinion of humanity, I think it’s showing you that most people these days are @ssholes.

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anothernikki offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 1 month ago (27 minutes after post)

Hugs doc. I’m somewhat dissilussioned on my oulook of people in general lately, too. Best we can do, it fake it for awhile. Keep plugging forward.
A nice glass of sherry doesn’t hurt either.

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Good ole boy offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 11 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 1 month ago (31 minutes after post)

stop drinking hatorade, and maybe you’ll have a different outlook.

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ĐaNi HaŦeS ŸoŪ online Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Help.com Volunteer Moderator Long Term User Shouts: 188 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 1 month ago (33 minutes after post)

What flavor hatorade? i’m thirsty

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spiritedsoul offline Verified User (2 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
Sandgate, G5, GB | 2 years, 1 month ago (1 hour, 24 minutes after post)

})i({ ~LazyDaze wrote:

heavensdream4 wrote:
i don’t think there is a person out there who likes everyone, all you can do is hold up your head and realize this is your life and you control it, and if you don’t want someone in your life shut them out

So true, no one can be liked by everyone, and if there is such a person it makes you wonder how much they are paying everyone, and I want in!

yeh, true, there wil always be people who like you, and there always be ones who don’t.
the ones who like u, well, invite them in ur life more more more if u like them :D
the ones who are d**k heads who would hate u for no reason, wud go round hating every1 else too. and the reason they hate every1, is because they hate themselves. simple answer.

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~LazyDaze~ offline Verified User (2 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 241 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 1 month ago (1 hour, 25 minutes after post)

I agree

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molotok offline Verified User (3 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 29 #
Gvle, 03, SE | 2 years, 1 month ago (3 days, 6 hours after post)

DaNiLoVeSyOu ran dry of hatorade substitute (must have been CoolAid)…

Try pepper soup and a cold, strong light lager.

Doc, don’t worry! Just be yourself and don’t mind the dislikers. They are not worth your notice. Remain being a kind and nice person, and the likers will eventually show up.

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online Verified User (2 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 554 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 1 month ago (3 days, 15 hours after post)

sorry to hear that doc, avoid harsh people those who are rude and got nothing very much good to say or those who bully you. most of them are just miserable. and as molotok said, they are not worth your notice. :)

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mickyginge offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
Ripe, E2, GB | 1 year, 8 months ago (5 months, 1 week after post)

I often feel ridiculed by other people. But and I used to get really angry and lose it with them, I’ve never had many friends, and the I lost a lot of the ones I did have, but I am learning to hold on to my temper, and yeah, fake liking people for a while, fake enjoying the company of others, and also spend time on my own. But the best is when I’m just chilling with some mates, no pressure, like right now! ;)

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