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i really feel that my relationship with my bf is becoming so unfair…

i dont expect anyting in return but sometimes i feel like im being treated as a stranger to him…we’re both two different person but I really dont care or I dont really feel like being treated like that because he was so special to me and I treat him like a diamond in my palm…very precious…but to him im just nothin’…am i just aasuming or i it is right to feel this way beucase of the way he treats me,need help! thanks!

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C.M.Theisen offline Verified User (3 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Providence, RI, US | 3 years, 2 months ago (5 hours, 52 minutes after post)

It is important to feel special when you are in a relationship. If your boyfriend doesn’t do anything to make you feel valued, you need to talk to him. Maybe he doesn’t understand how you are feeling? But if nothing changes and you still feel ignored and unvalued then it might be time to consider leaving him. After all you are valuable. Don’t waste your time on men who don’t see that.

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yay_bubbles offline Verified User (3 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
Cedar Falls, IA, US | 3 years, 2 months ago (14 hours, 49 minutes after post)

ok i am sorry but i dont think that your relationship is not going to work because you have a relationship and he dosnt treat you right and you treat him like something special. i am sorry but i dotn think it will work out. unless you try to work it out and talk and tell him how you feel and you get something going. hope things go well.

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allzvanity offline Verified User (3 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 3 years, 2 months ago (16 hours, 21 minutes after post)

You deserve better…If it is not natural for him to treat you special
It might take more time that it is worth to train..him?
gbu

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Maria Caroline offline Verified User (3 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 years, 2 months ago (1 day, 21 hours after post)

I can understand you because I’ve ever felt it too. U have 2 talk 2 your bf what your matter is. Ask ur bf to understand u that u don’t want 2 be treated that way. It’s not difficult 2 say it. U just need courage 2 do it.

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Qzzzz offline Verified User (3 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Montpelier, MS, US | 3 years, 1 month ago (3 weeks, 3 days after post)

Hey, tell him to shape up or ship out. If he does not respect you and treat you right, move on…You deserve better. Don’t ruin your life over someone that does not treat you right. If you move on, he might wake up and start acting right.

Good luck…be tuff and don’t take NOTHING off him…..

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