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Ok, so I like this girl, and i knew that she was into

me last year at least, but i also knew that there was this guy tryin to elbow me outta the way (he’s still my bud tho), but that she liked me better, and so i asked her out over the summer, and she made this excuse that COULD be tru, but then, she kinda was ignoring me, but just today, she was kinda flirting with me, but then later i see the other guy with his arm on her, and she doesnt seem like the type to be playin us, but i dont know…

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darkwolf0583 offline Verified User (2 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Saxton, PA, US | 2 years, 1 month ago (2 minutes after post)

well you can try and flirt back our you can take a direct approach and go up and ask her then there will be no excuses

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Rushyo offline Verified User (2 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 25 #
Kirkburton, G8, GB | 2 years, 1 month ago (4 minutes after post)

She’s probably playing you unintentionally. Her excuse is genuine but she wants to flirt/play anyway so she’s going ahead and doing it. She would probably rather just pick one of you if she was able to.

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gusrasc offline Unverified User #
Seattle, WA, US | 2 years, 1 month ago (8 minutes after post)

Thank you for trying to help… i’ll have to think for a while tho…

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darkwolf0583 offline Verified User (2 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Saxton, PA, US | 2 years, 1 month ago (9 minutes after post)

thats what were all here for :D

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gusrasc offline Unverified User #
Seattle, WA, US | 2 years, 1 month ago (17 minutes after post)

im just worried thaat it will be hella awkward cuz when i asked her out, i was all nervous, and i had to leave a message, and i made some mistakes and so… im not confidant she likes me, but i still wanna think that she duz

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n1lko offline Verified User (2 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Coventry, RI, US | 2 years, 1 month ago (18 minutes after post)

Make sure she really was flirting with u. I was in a kinda similar situation aand i totally misread her “signals” and thoought she was flirting, but thats how she normally acts. Also, to get an edge on this guy: make sure you spend as much time as possible with the girl as you are able to, even if it is just hanging out or somthing, it makes the other guy seem less important if youre there more.

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gusrasc offline Unverified User #
Seattle, WA, US | 2 years, 1 month ago (19 minutes after post)

yah, i do try… but i only have one period with her, and only one with him. (they’re different) and i cant really just come up to her on my own when she’s with all of her friends… hmmn…

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