school help: I am sitting hear with tear stained cheeks, feeling so alone and in dispaire. - Help.com

i dont see how you could be better off for your children dead.
who would be there for them.
you need to find a support system.
friends…church…something

no it sounds like alot of people need you…you are under a lot of stress right now and you need help…if you can find some friend who is willing to help with your kids or something while you deal with your boyfriend/house/etc… i knew a kid in school that had asbergers…it is a terrible thing to have and me myself has adhd i know what its like it is tough but you can make it through just get everything thing settled one thing at a time and life will help sort itself out…explain you your boyfriend what you do and that you need more help from him…tell your mother to grow up…in whatever way you want or see fit and as for the kids…raise them as best you can with the best morals you can give…i dont know what else to say…goto church and pray about it if that is your religion

You have a great deal on your shoulders! The fact that you are concerned enough to reach out here shows that you care enough to carry on, and please do. Please keep trying. They need you!!!

Have you thought about respite care? There are many places that will watch your children for free– who are very well qualified– and give you a chance to catch your breath. That may be what you need.I know many parents who use such resources regularly. Please check this out: http://wmoore.net/therapy.html
http://www.autism-pdd.net/respite.html

Give these folks a call! They can help!!

The mess, the boyfriend, all of that doesn’t matter as long as you are there for your boys. Please, take care of yourself!

I just realized that I gave you U.S. info. Do you need info for another country?

It is so hard to be a mom, and can be so discouraging. I have twins, and I can sometimes find myself at wits end. You are facing even harder challenges! Please, take care– you are a great mom to care for these boys, your Mum, 3 jobs.

It sounds like you have a huge burden on your shoulders…your children need you, and while it’s great to hear, it’s tough to handle sometimes! So please hang on, they need you. And we love you.

Well, if you have someone who can help you take care of the kids—a neighbor or relative, anyone who can take a bit of stress out of your life as you—that would be great. And if you need anyone to talk to, I’m here for you. :)

Hi, go to your doctor and ask for help! Is there help out there for you and your kids. I know some people who do temp foster care for kids with speical needs to give their parents a rest. Go on line check this out. look for sopport groups, they will be goin tru this also. you mite get some tips and advise on how to get some help. mental work stress can be a draining as phyical work. so if you get this under control it will help.

After all that fighting, are you really going to give up? What about all you’ve done so far, it makes a difference, your children need you, without you what would they have left? They would loose the most improtant thing in the world, someone who believes in them, and knows that they can be somebody important.
Please don’t give up
Jessica

You should think POSITVE! I know times can get hard but you can do it I know you can. Look towards the future and see what all your children can be in their future do you want to miss out on that?? Look at all the fun stuff you did and all the fun stuff you can still have Don’g Give up! Make the best out of life :) Hope for the best and do your best :)

you for sure need someone to help you out.
but where can you find the help ? thats the question.
do you have any friends, cruch or ..
but htink positive you will get through and as hard as it is to believe that it will happen.
and if you were to turn out dead.
what would happen you your kids?
your mother wouldnt be able to take care of them..
nor your boy friend.

POSITIVE POSITIVE POSITIVE
think think think