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is it bad that i stress over my love life so much i

make myself sick

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2 years, 1 month ago (2 minutes after post)

i have been doing that lately too. and i think its bad bc its really affecting my life but i don’t know how to stop it.

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tweety1 offline Verified User (2 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
Royal Oak, MI, US | 2 years, 1 month ago (5 minutes after post)

me neither i try to stop myself i cant eat sleep i can hardly stay awake in school. i know its bad for my health in only sixteen

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sparkyman offline Verified User (2 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 1 month ago (7 minutes after post)

Well, some stress is good, but when you are actually getting sick because of it, it is not good at all (needless to say). Try tying up loose ends by telling people how you feel. Maybe just talking to a close friend to let off some steam and what not. Plus you should not be stressing so much at 16, just forget about some things, whatever you are stressing out about is probabally not terribly important for the rest of your life you have left to live!

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tweety1 offline Verified User (2 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
Royal Oak, MI, US | 2 years, 1 month ago (10 minutes after post)

well i reacently stop cutting but i have the earge to do it again

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caprafan offline Verified User (2 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Detroit, MI, US | 2 years, 1 month ago (20 minutes after post)

You need an outlet to process your feelings, instead of burying them and cutting to distract you from them. Have you talked to a counselor at school or elsewhere? What is causing the stress?

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Kargo, 74, RU | 2 years, 1 month ago (1 hour, 18 minutes after post)

snap a rubber band on ur wrist it keeps me from cutting! and i understand you i’m always love sick! is it healthy? i don’t know, doubt it! Is it normal? i’d say so. lol

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oneword offline Verified User (2 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 1 month ago (21 hours, 36 minutes after post)

hey it me a i would like to talk some time with you!!! *

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peggimic offline Unverified User #
Louisville, KY, US | 2 years, 1 month ago (1 day, 18 hours after post)

What is normal is to have a love affair with yourself, honey!!!!! Take it from an old lady……I bet you’re a beautiful girl and you need to treat yourself as the best and most wonderful person you know!!!!! Believe me, it’s the only way…the only way. Find something healthy that interests you and get involved with helping others. You’ll get stronger, you’ll love yourself more and those really cool, neat together people will add to your life. Don’t LET ANYONE diminish the JOY. Keep strong.
Peggy

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Mesquite, NV, US | 2 years, 1 month ago (1 week, 4 days after post)

what i dont get is why do i fill so bad about my love life i just dont know why my lover is allways wth his friends i really need a ancer im stressen a lot over it its like he never has any time for me anymore!

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