Love help: If i’m not in love with you.

☆lilies☆

If i’m not in love with you.

If I’m not in love with you
What is this I’m going through tonight
And if this heart is lying then
What should I believe in
Why do I go crazy
Every time I think about you baby
Why else to I want you like I do
If I’m not in love with you

And if I don’t need your touch
Why do I miss you so much tonight
If it’s just infatuation
Then why is my heart achin’
To hold you forever
Give a part of me I thought I’d never
Give again to someone I could lose
If I’m not in love with you

Oh why in every fantasy
Do I feel your arms embracing me
Like lovers lost in sweet desire
And why in dreams do I surrender
Like a little baby
How do I explain this feeling
Someone tell me

If I’m not in love with you
What is this I’m going through tonight
And if this heart is lying then
What should I believe in
Why do I go crazy
Every time I think about you baby
Why else do I want you like I do
If I’m not in love with
If I’m not in love with
If I’m not in love with you

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molotok 3 #
G�vle, 03, SE | 5 years, 6 months ago (14 minutes after post)

Beautiful!

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OliveOil 3 #
An Undisclosed Location | 5 years, 6 months ago (36 minutes after post)

Thats very nice ~lilies~! Thanks for sharing! :)

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☆lilies☆ 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 5 years, 6 months ago (37 minutes after post)

thank you molotok, truly it is beautiful.
ames, my ice cream partner, lol glad you like it.

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*.* 3 #
An Undisclosed Location | 5 years, 6 months ago (49 minutes after post)

Beautiful!!
I love this movie Pride and Prejudice ^-^

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☆lilies☆ 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 5 years, 6 months ago (1 hour after post)

hello anon, it is. Elizabeth and Mr. Darcy. :)

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An Undisclosed Location | 5 years, 6 months ago (1 hour, 3 minutes after post)

yes

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farelo #
Fort Lauderdale, FL, US | 5 years, 6 months ago (1 hour, 21 minutes after post)

thats cute

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Richard Cor de Lyon 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 5 years, 6 months ago (1 hour, 57 minutes after post)

My love story???

I was about 22… and fell for the most beautiful understanding woman I have ever met in all my life. We had so much in common… and she was so very passionate, much wiser than me. She was truly my very first serious relationship. She was also very much more mature than I. She needed what I was not prepared to give her, so we were destined to break away from each other. I was stupid.

It was not until many years later that I was prepared, but by that time she had become married. She is now passed away… and I regret every day that I did not spend with her. I only hope some day she’ll come back to me, and that I will know her when she comes.
~ Richard

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QueenLazyMcCoolBeans 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 5 years, 6 months ago (2 hours, 9 minutes after post)

I think the first movie of pride and pejudice was better :)

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buddy107 6 #
Indianola, IA, US | 5 years, 6 months ago (2 hours, 31 minutes after post)

Very good. You share good videos with us. Whether it be your mood or just for fun. It’s always good to watch them.

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Silent.Scream 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 5 years, 6 months ago (5 hours, 28 minutes after post)

You have excellent taste in music :P … Music is such a good way to express yourself… Makes you cry, makes you laugh, makes you think…

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bionic 2 #
Brooklyn, NY, US | 5 years, 6 months ago (9 hours, 20 minutes after post)

Your not in love with me?? Noooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo!!!!

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guitar.in.my.heart. 1 #
Lawton, OK, US | 5 years, 6 months ago (11 hours, 15 minutes after post)

My love story? To be continued…

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☆lilies☆ 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 5 years, 6 months ago (12 hours, 7 minutes after post)

Hello Richard, thank you for sharing your love story. Each love story is touching. Mysterious and profound. are you still inlove with her til now? sorry, i just i have to ask.

hi Lazy, too bad i was not able to watch the first one. Actually, i was searching for the song at you tube. There it was and that movie goes with it. So i watched it and eventually i fell inlove with it too. it’s the sceneries, the characters and the dialogs.:)

hi farelo, glad you like it. :)

hugs Buddy and Sam (SW), thank you. i have varied tastes of music. and this is one of them. Each one i share with you are those that strongly speak of what i feel at the moment. You never know how these songs help me express each emotion. Since i could not put anything into writing, then a song would do.

Bionic, i like that. short and simple. LOL

Luigi (Luis), i am looking forward to your story. :)

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Alice N. 2 #
An Unknown Location | 5 years, 6 months ago (14 hours, 28 minutes after post)

everything you post makes me sit at my comp and cry, it all makes me stop and think about my life, and find a reason to keep going even when i’ve had enough, thankyou in your way you have yet again made me stop and think about everything. lil you are a very sweet person and i hope that you have a life filled with kindness and smiles, because in my opinion that’s what you deserve, if i thought for a second the world was poplated by people just like you i think i could find it within my-self to go outside more. Thankyou for your support.

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Alice N. 2 #
An Unknown Location | 5 years, 6 months ago (14 hours, 28 minutes after post)

you help me even in your posts LOL. that is the mark of a truly nice person

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☆lilies☆ 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 5 years, 6 months ago (16 hours, 8 minutes after post)

My dear little Alice, i am so glad to hear from you. i have just logged in and still about to answer your shout. Life is such a mysterious pleasure yet to unfold. Everything is a question but has reasons why they occur.

I am touched with what you have written above and for that I thank you for sharing a bigger part of you with me. We may not talk a lot but you know i am always here in spirit.Certain things need not to be touched and are better left untold. But you know they are always there.hugs.

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Richard Cor de Lyon 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 5 years, 6 months ago (16 hours, 44 minutes after post)

yep… still in love with her today. Even though she has died, I still see her face in others in a crowd.

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Alice N. 2 #
An Unknown Location | 5 years, 6 months ago (16 hours, 49 minutes after post)

your story is sweet richard. you will know when your paths cross again i assure you that you will, but it may not be as you expect. you may see her in a child that needs a father to love her and take care of her, so be on the look out ok heve a good night

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ScreaminglyWonderful 11 #
An Undisclosed Location | 5 years, 6 months ago (18 hours, 52 minutes after post)

Lilies are you okay? If you are not now, you will be, it will take time. *hugs sweet girl*

btw, you mixed me up with Silent Scream up there, but it’s okay we are sisters of scream and are both good people.

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☆lilies☆ 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 5 years, 6 months ago (20 hours, 6 minutes after post)

oh tteehheee Hi Sam, there you go indeed i mixed it up :) it must because of the letters, soweeee. :)
i am in the mood of some good songs. Everyday is an adventure therefore it has to be lived accordingly to its purpose. thank you for being here for me today. hugs. :)

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ScreaminglyWonderful 11 #
An Undisclosed Location | 5 years, 6 months ago (20 hours, 12 minutes after post)

(no worries about the mix-up)You are welcome sweet girl, you wanna hear my favorite love song?

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☆lilies☆ 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 5 years, 6 months ago (20 hours, 13 minutes after post)

thank you. :) sure, what song is it?

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ScreaminglyWonderful 11 #
An Undisclosed Location | 5 years, 6 months ago (20 hours, 19 minutes after post)

http://youtube.com/watch?v=ynIy8bP5juc

the video is stupid, so don’t watch - just listen to the words. :-)

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☆lilies☆ 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 5 years, 6 months ago (20 hours, 22 minutes after post)

heeeheee, that’s fine, he dances like Mr. Bean. :) now, where is my chicken guy.

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ScreaminglyWonderful 11 #
An Undisclosed Location | 5 years, 6 months ago (20 hours, 23 minutes after post)

lol yeah he does. You guy, he’s running ’round the barn yard like a chicken with his head cut off I guess.

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☆lilies☆ 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 5 years, 6 months ago (21 hours, 29 minutes after post)

lol oh my, if only i knew my prince is headless. :D

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A.O.E.N 51 #
An Undisclosed Location | 5 years, 6 months ago (22 hours, 50 minutes after post)

The words you use have been handpicked from your soul…

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☆lilies☆ 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 5 years, 6 months ago (23 hours, 17 minutes after post)

Hi Rob, wished i wrote this song myself, it’s one of my favorites. :)

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theorignalemobunny 1 #
Kingston Upon Hull, G6, GB | 5 years, 6 months ago (1 day, 1 hour after post)

my love story,
well they isnt much of one, i havent been with many people coz everytime i do i get hurt.
the first person i got with lasted bout 1 night i think, everything was great i was really happy but the next day he ignored me and that hurt then he started saying stuff bout me and that hurt as well.
the second one i got with and he was really nice and then i found out he was sleeping with my mate, then he treated me like something he had stepped in, but then i was stupid and i got back with him again just for him to treat me the exact same way, i was stupid but if he asked me tomorro to get with him i would thats how stupid i am.
then the third one i meet and i like i asked him out and he said he loved me but i havent spoke to him since i asked him out and that was bout 3 weeks ago so that if deperntly over.
so they it is my love life.
btw love the song it is really nice.
xx

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☆lilies☆ 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 5 years, 6 months ago (1 day, 12 hours after post)

thank you for sharing your love story. it makes a lot of sense. i don’t know why we trust when we know it is a foolish thing to do. and we end up really get hurt and stuffed with good memories and eventually forgetting them and would have to move on. but you are young and would be meeting people along the way. you’ll have the nicest love in the world. :)

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kerreb 1 #
Whitehouse Lower, T1, GB | 5 years, 6 months ago (1 day, 20 hours after post)

yay pride and predjuice nice choice of song

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☆lilies☆ 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 5 years, 6 months ago (1 day, 21 hours after post)

hi kerreb, glad you like it.:)

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☆lilies☆ 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 5 years, 6 months ago (1 day, 21 hours after post)

i thought of you listening to this song once SS.
this line…

Joe wrote:
And why in dreams do I surrender
Like a little baby
How do I explain this feeling
Someone tell me

it will be a question your heart only knows the answer.

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Rainbow Girl 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 5 years, 6 months ago (3 days, 2 hours after post)

Nice I like it.xo

sheyda1 1 #
US | 5 years, 6 months ago (4 days after post)

happy birthday,ilove this movie too.its my favorite movie ever!
i hope i find someone who likes me like in this movie,but it doesnt happen in real life unfortunatley.im a freak of love and romance,how can u find it ,do u have some advice?,and thank for your advice,but i tried little bit of all u said ,i guess they dont buy it or im not doing it really good.

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☆lilies☆ 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 5 years, 6 months ago (4 days, 5 hours after post)

hi crista (wisdom)– hehe glad you like it.

shedyda–thank you :) we just don’t realize that our own life is our very own movie where we play as the lead actors and actresses. you just have to believe and it will come true. your time for love might not be today–it could be the next day or the next year. i will go to your post and talk with you there. :)

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lostboy71 1 #
Ammanford, X7, GB | 5 years, 6 months ago (5 days, 1 hour after post)

Beautiful……This is how i feel , but i cant find my love since she went away.

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☆lilies☆ 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 5 years, 6 months ago (5 days, 1 hour after post)

i just looked at your post and i feel for you lostboy.

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Goodfella 2 #
An Unknown Location | 5 years, 6 months ago (5 days, 3 hours after post)

Lillies…….your romantic side comes through in the posts I have read and it is very refreshing ……….PLEASE continue!!……………………Beautiful song…………RON

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☆lilies☆ 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 5 years, 6 months ago (5 days, 3 hours after post)

*blushes thank you Ron. I am glad you agree with me, as my posts say it all:)

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Beijing, 22, CN | 5 years, 6 months ago (5 days, 20 hours after post)

love isn’t everything but everything has to be with love

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hi, i'm Ben 1 #
Hamilton, ON, CA | 5 years, 6 months ago (1 week after post)

we move along a path
not sure of where it goes
all of us can be assured
that only one man knows
and if we ever fall astray
his love will lift us high
and when we have gone long his path
we will all know why

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☆lilies☆ 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 5 years, 6 months ago (1 week, 2 days after post)

heeheee thought i am too. :) one of my mushy days. but i’m proud of it just like your proudest help.com moment post. :D

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An Undisclosed Location | 5 years, 6 months ago (1 week, 2 days after post)

oh T, you are such a boy. cheers. ;)

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An Undisclosed Location | 5 years, 6 months ago (1 week, 2 days after post)

*eyes gone wider.

interesting. passion fruit.

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An Undisclosed Location | 5 years, 6 months ago (1 week, 2 days after post)

i could smell those from here. hmmmm cherry blossom.

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An Unknown Location | 5 years, 6 months ago (3 weeks, 1 day after post)

that was just magnificant. i mean i just love the movie and i was having a crappy day and i saw this video it is sooo nice.

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An Undisclosed Location | 5 years, 5 months ago (4 weeks, 1 day after post)

hi cute! thanks for checking the post. glad it helped. :)

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guitar.in.my.heart. 1 #
Lawton, OK, US | 5 years, 5 months ago (4 weeks, 1 day after post)

i forgot all about this post. still to be continued…

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☆lilies☆ 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 5 years, 5 months ago (4 weeks, 1 day after post)

lol i know. waiting for your story luigi. after thanksgiving :)

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An Unknown Location | 5 years, 5 months ago (1 month after post)

question is it called if i’m not in love with you if i want to get it on you tube

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☆lilies☆ 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 5 years, 5 months ago (1 month after post)

yes. :)

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guitar.in.my.heart. 1 #
Lawton, OK, US | 5 years, 5 months ago (1 month, 1 week after post)

~lilies~ wrote:
lol i know. waiting for your story luigi. after thanksgiving :)

the saga continues :P

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☆lilies☆ 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 5 years, 5 months ago (1 month, 1 week after post)

ha-ha! then give me a shout when you are ready. bllleeehhh!!! :D

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Gimeaux, 98, FR | 5 years, 3 months ago (3 months after post)

I like these films. I’ve studied alot about this. Thanks for the video.

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☆lilies☆ 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 5 years, 2 months ago (4 months, 2 weeks after post)

Hi Ben, I am happy that somehow i can be of help to you. I remember you. Because the thing is, i learned from you and your story.
Seeing the world with a new lens could give you hope. Because in truth, true love never dies. Though in life, we simply have to move on when certain circumstances are at hand. We care for you, keep us posted.
Take care my friend.

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nishbot 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 5 years, 2 months ago (4 months, 2 weeks after post)

oh dear. P&P? …tsk….women…

☆lilies☆ 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 5 years, 2 months ago (4 months, 2 weeks after post)

and why not? :P tsk argh! men!

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nishbot 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 5 years, 2 months ago (4 months, 2 weeks after post)

:-P

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An Undisclosed Location | 5 years, 2 months ago (4 months, 2 weeks after post)

:P :P

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crazyG 171 #
An Undisclosed Location | 5 years, 2 months ago (4 months, 2 weeks after post)

Hi ~lilies~, that’s beautiful :)

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Benjamin S. 7 #
Omaha, NE, US | 5 years, 2 months ago (4 months, 2 weeks after post)

i really like your poem its beautiful

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An Undisclosed Location | 5 years, 2 months ago (4 months, 2 weeks after post)

Thanks crazyG and xtrem, i am glad you like it, actually i did not write it myself.It’s a song from a movie and novel that i have liked eversince. Thank you for commenting on it. It has helped me one time.

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