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i like her, she likes me, but she has a bf…

i am a 18 year old male, and i reallllyyy like this girl thats a year younger then me, and she reaallllyyy likes me back, but she has a gf. we had a fling for a week, where we ended up holding hands and kissing. in the end though, she felt bad for her bf, so she decided to stay with him, and stay ‘friends’ with me, even though those feelings are still there. wat should i do?? as i said i really like this girl, so should i wait for her? ask her to break up with her bf? move on? waaaattt!!?!?!? any advice would help. thanks!

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annette_dimmic offline Unverified User #
Grants Pass, OR, US | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (2 minutes after post)

I don’t understand though… What makes you think she won’t cheat on you if you guys do end up together? Have you thought about that?
You are probobly feeling very crushed right now and I don’t mean to be rude.

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LostRineko offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
Warrington, P2, GB | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (3 minutes after post)

Move on?

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Leftwondering offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 9 #
Hebden Bridge, C2, GB | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (4 minutes after post)

I think that you should move on because nothing is going to change. If she is like that with her boyfriend she’d probably be the same with you. Also if she hasn’t left her boyfriend she probably just finds it fun to flirt with you and exciting in a sense.

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manga60 offline Unverified User #
Langley, BC, CA | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (5 minutes after post)

no no, i understand that. but theres sumtin abt this girl that i trust. plus she wasnt too well off with her bf, things got bad, and became somewat better casue of me…

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Hebden Bridge, C2, GB | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (5 minutes after post)

Well if you really want to be with her why not ask her to leave her boyfriend? If she’s not willing to leave him then you need to move on and forget about her.

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manga60 offline Unverified User #
Langley, BC, CA | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (7 minutes after post)

hmmm…maybe ill do that. thanks LW.

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gapeach201 offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
Atlanta, GA, US | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (17 hours, 51 minutes after post)

i agree

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