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im am married and have three kids im very unhappy all

i do is stay home thats it he works and i have no where to go and no money to get there help

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mik offline Verified User (2 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Richardson, TX, US | 2 years, 1 month ago (4 minutes after post)

What is keeping you from making a little play money?

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gmawa offline Unverified User #
US | 2 years, 1 month ago (25 minutes after post)

My advice is to get a job AWAY from home! Even if you only make enough money to pay for your childcare expenses, it may be worth it. When I was a stay-home mom, I often felt tired and grouchy. No one appreciated my work, and my husband would come home and moan about how lucky I was to “just stay home all the time and not have to do anything.” I was a university teacher before I had kids. I went back to work at a community college, teaching just 2 or 3 classes per semseter. I only made enough money to pay for childcare, a house cleaner, and the costs for the clothes and transportation I needed to work, but I always felt it was worth it. It gave both the kids and me a much-needed little break from each other, it forced me to get cleaned up and nicely dressed, I got to communicate with other adults, and it made my husband shut up about my oh-so-glorious life at home. Maybe if you think about what your interests are, you can start searching for a part-time job. Good luck! I truly hope things work out well for you.

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robertbrenner offline Verified User (2 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
Melbourne, FL, US | 2 years, 1 month ago (48 minutes after post)

Dearest Very Unhappy,

I know the feeling. The difference was, i was always at work. Thats all I did. Thats all i was. I was work, I was a paycheck. Soon, I found that I was happier, at work!

I don’t feel this is about money! Feels like it’s more about, Who am I?

Does this resonate? Let me know if I can help!
In Light love and peace
Robert

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sucks2bu offline Verified User (2 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
US | 2 years, 1 month ago (53 minutes after post)

well the reason i dont work now is because my oldest is 10 then there is my 5 year old and my3 yearold my husband alwaystook care of us its not a really bad marriage just not a happy one my main proublm is he has told me if i leve him he wont helpme he said he would do for the kids and that is all i really want from him but he wont let me work everytime i tried he made sure it didnt work we were very young when we hd kids i was only17 he dont beat me or mistreat the kids he just works and comes home and sleepand when i said i never leve the house i meant to the store and back thats it am i cheating my kids if i find a wayto make it on my own

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robertbrenner offline Verified User (2 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
Melbourne, FL, US | 2 years, 1 month ago (1 hour after post)

But! are you cheating you?

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neku offline Verified User (3 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 1 month ago (1 hour, 21 minutes after post)

You can try freelance writing, bookkeeping, software, transcription or customer service work at home jobs. These companies do not require any fee and pay well . List of companies(with websites) offering genuine work at home jobs is available at http://www.pcworkathome.net . Many of these companies have been in business for several years

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~Shie~ offline Verified User (2 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 9 #
Gloversville, NY, US | 2 years, 1 month ago (1 day, 2 hours after post)

have you ever had a day to yourself?? even if you just take a couple of hours to go to the store to just look around… it seems as though you have lost yourself… causing fricktion…. i too was married for ten years.. not only did i care for my three kids.. i also did 60 hours a week of daycare.. watching 8 other children…. everyday… cleaning the house… cooking dinner.. doing the laundry.. JUST NEVER HAVING “me” time.. maybe if you just take one day a week, have your husband watch the kids.. and make time for yourself.. you wouldnt feel like you do…

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