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i miss him already!

he doesnt reply my msgs or call me the whole day. okay. its only today. and yesterday. but doesnt he know?!

whatever it is, i dont wanna make it seem like im missing him. should i ignore his msgs/calls should he give any? and take my own sweet time to reply? hurhur.

p/s: we’re not together though. heh.

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winter_dog___ offline Verified User (2 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Singapore, 00, SG | 2 years, 1 month ago (42 minutes after post)

call up and ask for a casual chat? or maybe go out to do some stuff together? im not sure if im of any help but that’s the best i can offer… go ring him up.. cheers

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winter_dog___ offline Verified User (2 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Singapore, 00, SG | 2 years, 1 month ago (43 minutes after post)

1 more thing, maybe, just maybe he is busy? try to find out more from his friends? O.o
hope im helping…

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winter_dog___ offline Verified User (2 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Singapore, 00, SG | 2 years, 1 month ago (49 minutes after post)

1 more thing, i will be on from around 5-8 pm later… so if u still need any help, i will be free to help( if u allow me to… ) cheers and good luck… gtg now… =)

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shazzy85 offline Verified User (2 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Singapore, 00, SG | 2 years, 1 month ago (8 hours, 21 minutes after post)

well thanks winter_dog. i let myself go by sleeping though. LOL. so hopefully, i can just let everything else go as well. =)

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www.Gossip.moonfruit offline Verified User (2 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 1 month ago (8 hours, 41 minutes after post)

hi there sunflower. You know what men are like, and you look like you have a good head on your shoulders. Let him wait.

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shazzy85 offline Verified User (2 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Singapore, 00, SG | 2 years, 1 month ago (9 hours, 11 minutes after post)

thanks johncorn.
thats a pretty nice “heads up” for me. =)

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www.Gossip.moonfruit offline Verified User (2 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 1 month ago (9 hours, 15 minutes after post)

Your welcome. love is a funny thing, and we all need it. My name is john by the way.

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www.Gossip.moonfruit offline Verified User (2 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 1 month ago (9 hours, 18 minutes after post)

A women of your looks, shouldn’t find it hard. Men are hard work.

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shazzy85 offline Verified User (2 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Singapore, 00, SG | 2 years, 1 month ago (14 hours, 29 minutes after post)

haha. thanks john. ;)

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www.Gossip.moonfruit offline Verified User (2 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 1 month ago (17 hours, 21 minutes after post)

How are feeling now any better?????

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shazzy85 offline Verified User (2 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Singapore, 00, SG | 2 years, 1 month ago (21 hours, 52 minutes after post)

john (UK) wrote:
How are feeling now any better?????

thanks for the question. =)
well in any case, he did not contact me for 2 whole days in total.
maybe he aint waiting.

either hes making me wait instead - ego maybe? (do you guys like doing that?)
or maybe hes just not interested. *sigh*

whatever it is, nice words you gave me. ;)
feeling better but the “missing him” feeling just wont go. =(

never mind.
i’ll try to cheer up. :D

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www.Gossip.moonfruit offline Verified User (2 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 1 month ago (21 hours, 56 minutes after post)

No guy’s mess up going to fast in most cases.

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www.Gossip.moonfruit offline Verified User (2 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 1 month ago (21 hours, 58 minutes after post)

So what do you like to do in your spare time? changing the subject..

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shazzy85 offline Verified User (2 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Singapore, 00, SG | 2 years, 1 month ago (21 hours, 59 minutes after post)

okayy.
to play safe,
i’ll take it that hes not interested then.
lol.

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shazzy85 offline Verified User (2 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Singapore, 00, SG | 2 years, 1 month ago (21 hours, 59 minutes after post)

john (UK) wrote:
So what do you like to do in your spare time? changing the subject..

HAHA.
hey maybe we should use the “shoutbox” or whatever they call it. :P

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www.Gossip.moonfruit offline Verified User (2 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 1 month ago (22 hours, 3 minutes after post)

how????

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www.Gossip.moonfruit offline Verified User (2 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 1 month ago (22 hours, 7 minutes after post)

hello are you still there.

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shazzy85 offline Verified User (2 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Singapore, 00, SG | 2 years, 1 month ago (22 hours, 8 minutes after post)

click on shoutouts yeah. ;)

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~Shie~ offline Verified User (2 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 9 #
Gloversville, NY, US | 2 years, 1 month ago (22 hours, 42 minutes after post)

i am a person who believes an eye for an eye… if talking to him doesnt work… then do it back to him.. usually it makes them start thinking… and wondering… it gives them the same feelings that you are in… and is usually a wake up call.

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shazzy85 offline Verified User (2 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Singapore, 00, SG | 2 years, 1 month ago (22 hours, 51 minutes after post)

lil_bit_shi wrote:
i am a person who believes an eye for an eye… if talking to him doesnt work… then do it back to him.. usually it makes them start thinking… and wondering… it gives them the same feelings that you are in… and is usually a wake up call.

hey! that is an AWESOME advice! just what i need! now im fully geared up to let him wait (if he cares though). and thanks to you, im beginning to think im doing just the right thing. :)

lurve it! thanks! =)

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~Shie~ offline Verified User (2 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 9 #
Gloversville, NY, US | 2 years, 1 month ago (22 hours, 54 minutes after post)

you are welcome hun… let me tell you a little story.. quick.. i had a boyfriend a few years ago.. who would always get on the internet and chat with girls.. i am a person that believes.. that when you are with someone.. YOU DONT DO THAT.. you respect the person you are with… well.. he kept doing it and doing it.. so one day… i sat down and i started to chat in front of him…. and had my cam on and stuff… BOY DID HE GET MAD… HE WAS CRYING AND EVERYTHING…. he even unplugged my computer… so i told him.. well.. you werent listening to me about how i was feeling.. so i decided to show you how it felt… .. IT WORKS… lol

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shazzy85 offline Verified User (2 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Singapore, 00, SG | 2 years, 1 month ago (22 hours, 58 minutes after post)

lil_bit_shi wrote:
you are welcome hun… let me tell you a little story.. quick.. i had a boyfriend a few years ago.. who would always get on the internet and chat with girls.. i am a person that believes.. that when you are with someone.. YOU DONT DO THAT.. you respect the person you are with… well.. he kept doing it and doing it.. so one day… i sat down and i started to chat in front of him…. and had my cam on and stuff… BOY DID HE GET MAD… HE WAS CRYING AND EVERYTHING…. he even unplugged my computer… so i told him.. well.. you werent listening to me about how i was feeling.. so i decided to show you how it felt… .. IT WORKS… lol

ouh? lol. thats really cute! lol. i agree with u afterall. they need to FEEL it to UNDERSTAND it. so maybe thats just what needs to be done huh. :)

now thats a huge heads-up for me. :)

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~Shie~ offline Verified User (2 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 9 #
Gloversville, NY, US | 2 years, 1 month ago (22 hours, 59 minutes after post)

lol…good luck hun…

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shazzy85 offline Verified User (2 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Singapore, 00, SG | 2 years, 1 month ago (23 hours, 2 minutes after post)

thanks!
much appreciated. :)

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winter_dog___ offline Verified User (2 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Singapore, 00, SG | 2 years, 1 month ago (1 day, 6 hours after post)

woo hoo… i missed so much… lol… =) glad i can help…

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shazzy85 offline Verified User (2 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Singapore, 00, SG | 2 years, 1 month ago (1 day, 6 hours after post)

yes winter dog. u did too. =)
thanks. :D

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winter_dog___ offline Verified User (2 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Singapore, 00, SG | 2 years, 1 month ago (2 days, 22 hours after post)

=) glad i can help…

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