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I asked for people to give me advice, not to cut me down.
The business is profitable (they had an average of 91,000 US$ PROFIT, for the past 6 years, I don’t call that nothing…). And they’re selling because the man needs surgery and rather has this done in Europe instead of central america, and he wants to do the recovery there as well. So I guess that’s a pretty good reason, another reason for someone to sell their business could of course be that they want to retire…But I guess that never crossed your mind.
I can afford a loan, but they won’t give it to me because the business is not here in the Netherlands…And my divorce was costly, yes, for two reasons: I was married to an american and he’s overthere and I am here….he did not cooperate, so the divorce took us one and a half year to complete. And second: He’s an alcoholic that goes in and out of jail and doesn’t keep a job for long. I have a very good job, and besides that have my own translation agency….so he got half of everything I had, while I’ve been taking care of our daughter for five years and he never paid a dime for her.So maybe you should ask people more about themselves before you start judging them or draw wrong conclusions.
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