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jcd offline Verified User (9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Atlanta, GA, US | 8 months, 1 week ago (3 minutes after post)

Call the person you are in a relationship with instead.

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*Lilly!* offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Undisclosed Location | 8 months, 1 week ago (1 hour, 28 minutes after post)

i agree with jc. call your new boyfriend, and forget the old one. he should mean nothing but a piece of dirt to you now.

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Mardarkhear offline Unverified User #
Greensboro, NC, US | 8 months, 1 week ago (2 hours, 10 minutes after post)

lol What hose two said. Take ever thing that reminds you of him and throw it away, or sell it.

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aehtla offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
Nassau, 23, BS | 8 months, 1 week ago (2 hours, 20 minutes after post)

thanks for the advice, me and the ex were very close friends first i guess why that is why we shouldn’t start talking again…right?

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jcd offline Verified User (9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Atlanta, GA, US | 8 months, 1 week ago (2 hours, 41 minutes after post)

This is just my opinion:

There is nothing wrong with being friends with an ex, but if you still have strong, relationship-type feelings for him you should either cut off all contact with him or end the new relationship until you are able to deal with your feelings for your ex. How would you like to be in a relationship with someone who is always thinking about and calling their ex?

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aehtla offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
Nassau, 23, BS | 8 months, 1 week ago (2 hours, 44 minutes after post)

that is a good point dyer. i would like it happening to me.

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文lil_bit_shie文 offline Verified User (9 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 248 #
Gloversville, NY, US | 8 months, 1 week ago (10 hours, 37 minutes after post)

remember that he is an ex for a reason… and by having this compulsion to keep talking to him…. feeling it as a nessesity… could interfier with your prior relationship… be careful of what you wish for….

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aehtla offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
Nassau, 23, BS | 8 months, 1 week ago (22 hours, 13 minutes after post)

I meant I would not like it happening to me. thanks lil bit

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aehtla edited this post 7 months, 2 weeks ago. Read the previous text »

OOPs I did it again:{ I started talking to an ex of mine and now i constantly find reasons to call him, but the thing is I am in a relationship already, I need something to occupy my time when i get all antsy and want to dial, any suggestions.

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