Love help: Weight,Love & Life..Im so fed up! - Help.com

Xi, you dont have a problem you’re just not satisfied with things you have ..
lets see the weight issue: Well , you arent the first person on help.com who asked about this issue…anyway obviously you are doing the right thing . You are eating healthy and excercising , well at this rate , there isnt much you can do. It seems that you have thick bones to start with..its not a bad thing though. Anyway , you probably could change the routine of eating. Lets say instead of eating 3 big meals a day try eating 5 small meals.Meaning just eat a little and not until you’re full. This way ur stomach becomes smaller in size, with time you wont be able to eat as much as before, i mean like big quantities.That could help loosing the weight.
Anyway, im not used to the american measures , the size 8, 16 watever..here we use the sizes from 25 till 38 i guess…Another thing,believe it or not , i didnt want to loose weight at all , im not fat actually but it happened that for 3 days i didnt eat dinner…i lost 3 kgs , thats uh 7.5 pounds…so i came up with the conclusion that cutting on the food at night helps a lot in loosing weight..so try that ..

second issue: Friendships,ok so your friends hurt you , well thats not new …it happens all the time …this shows how much a person cares or not …to me when things like that happen , i move on , i find people that do actually care…dont worry there are some good people out there, you just need to find the right one..be a little patient …for now stick with your friends and enjoy your life with the people around you …

Akhh the almight guy issue:P …well that.. no one can help you with , make new aquaintances , meet new people , not all guys are jerks ..and eventualy you’ll find the right guy, dont look to hard he might be around the corner …

Well, its true you can choose your family, but you can talk to them , in a way fix them.:p …you’re saying your mom doesnt understand you , well try telling her that , be straight forward ..tell her * mom we need to talk , i would like to tell you how i feel and whats upsetting me , but you cant just tell me to stop being silly , help me, give me advice …make me feel better *
tell that to your mom , you’ll be surprised , she might comfort you after all..

Ok so the last thing , well dreams do come true ..that is one thing for sure , you just have to have the will to do whatever it takes …set yourself some standands to reach , put some goals to achieve ….be confident that if you work hard enough you would reach places in life …its good that you have a dream ..other people are clueless :P …just have faith and believe in yourself…if you think you’re good enough in acting, you’ll make it

.. mm well i hope that helped …im not in a helpy mood ( im not thinking straight ):P but i tried helping as much as i can :) hope it helped a little

Just be happy with what you have. Some people do not have any of what you are writing about.
This is your life, so live it. Don’t spend it with worries or woes, just find yourself and be happy.

As far as eating healthy, exercising, and not losing weight that might not be bad as long as you keep with it. Once you get tone and get more muscle, your body will burn more fat. It should help.

Also if you are putting on a lot of muscle you may want to change the kinds of exercise you do. Try doing more cardio and less with weights and strength building. If your goal is to lose weight, try doing at least twice as much cardio as any kind of weights. Basically the more cardio you do the more it will minimize your mass(both fat and to a certain degree muscle as well.) That may help fix the undesired effects you were mentioning.

As far as diet, I couldn’t do it all the time. But I changed my eating to where 5 days a week I eat very healthy food, at modest portions, then on the weekends I can eat whatever I want. That way I don’t break my diet for the rest of the week. Also after a while I just wasn’t eating as much even on the weekends. Also drinking two glasses of water before each meal and snack is great. It will help you get the proper hydration, plus you will feel fuller and it won’t be as hard to stick to a diet. Staying hydrated will help fight fatigue, drowsiness and help you burn fat more as well.

music is what helped me through my problems, I wouldn’t be here today if it wasn’t for this certain band (our lady peace).. Their songs, it was like they were singing about me..music still helps me today, the same band as always and many more!! so don’t feel like it’s stupid, because really its not!! I can see that people has helped you a lot here, that’s great!! just remember, listen too the music!!:)

:) , if you need anything else , im right here :D

You’ve got some good advice going her already, let’s see what I can add. First of all, weight is not the issue at all. It is how you look. Like you said, muscle weighs more than fat, so keep on working the way you are and throw away the scale until you look the way you want. Another thing is the power of thought. Instead of thinking about losing weight, concentrate on your goal weight and how you will feel once you get there. You can use the power of thought for friends and the guy thing too. Think about the kind of friends you want…those couple of people that you can trust, and keep thinking about them. Describe them in your diary or journal if you want. Same for the guy. Describe the perfect guy and how things will be when you are together. You can do anything that you want. Just concentrate on your goal, you’ll do great!

Music is the universal language(that is said about math too, but music is mathematical!) that can help heal the soul. I congratulate you on using it to get you through this time of need. It is a powerful tool indeed. Good luck with everything.

I can so relate to the guy thing? Maybe they just don’t know us well enough. Family can be strange; they either don’t know you or see right through you. As for the life sucks thing, if you have music, you can find other people that like your music, and yes, this could be repeative, but that just might make you some more friends. If your current friend is leaving you out and lying, you may be able to talk some sense into her, but otherwise it may be time to move on.

whatever you are a stupid white girl with white girl problems.

sorry i do have problems i cant lg back into my account

keep talkin stupid i tried to apologize to your ugly *** so just go shove your attitude to where the sun dont shine

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ill whoop ur *** keep talkin stupid

ok im done pickin wit u

What the hell just happened here :S …
Evans everyone has problems and no one is perfect including you , you have no right to make fun of someone about their problems and no right to judge people when you havent even met them …this is a helping site , people help each other here instead of mocking them , if thats what you’re here to do then its best that you leave …no one wants extra problems ….just like you everybody here wants help to solve their problems , you can either help and get helped , or just leave ….
tc :)

can i help you with anything and you can help me as a true truce

nothing for starters how old are you

im 15 and i live in muskegon

nice to know i can turn around my actions and it wont happen again i am just stressing but i know its still no excuse

i hope you know that i am sincerely sorry because i am i just get so stressed out and its hard for me to talk about my feeling i just keep it bottled up and every once in a while i have to take it out usually i write it out so i font know what happened to me this time