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PLEASE HELP MY FAMILY GET A HOME…

My name is Robin, I have been married for 18 years, to my husband Mike,& we have 3 sons, Jonathon,Matthew & Jacob.
We live in Houston Texas,now after losing our home in Louisiana due to Hurricane Katrina,& its becoming more & more unbearable,as the months/years pass.We are still struggling to survive & to replenish all that we have lost.You would think after this long,we would be on the road to recovery, that we would be on our feet but we are not. We are sooo still struggling day to day for everything we get or need, we are struggling just to survive on bare essentials, that many people would take for granted, like bathroom tissue, ect.
This is such a hard thing to do, when you have to start all over from scratch & to lose your pride,or what you have left of your pride, to beg and plead for help, any help.We have struggled in so many ways,with food,clothing,furniture,medical, just everyday needs that other people take for granted simple things poeple enjoy,we no longer have,that you would think should come so easy,but they havent.Like furniture, what little we have, we have found infront of someones home because they were throwing it away, clothes, we have worn till holes are coming in them, food, is sometimes just beans or what we can find & now we have the holidays coming & its so very hard to try & be happy, knowing that we are yet again, we are losing YET another home because we have been asked to move, due to our landlords son, wanting the property but we have to be strong no matter what for our sons sakes, sometimes this is so hard to do.I believe if they see their parents break then they will truley start to worry & wonder if it ever really will be o’kay, again.
We have to always try & remember to be happy no matter what, even when their is nothing to be truley happy about & to know that we are all safe & together, that after all is the most important thing…But sometimes, even that is not a blessing,sometimes we wish, that we would of been taken with our home, then we would not have to face all the heartache. Its just so hard to do anymore,so many tears,so much stress,the pressure,& the pain. That is why, I have came here today for Help, a plea for any help that can be offered to me & my family,a cry for someone to PLEASE give us help, where we can find another home & have the money to pay for it. money for a deposit, money to move in..Oh, God, we have NOTHING and its killing us. We live paycheck to paycheck,no savings of any type,nothing to fall back on,no one that we can beg for help from,no resources left,no churchesleft, that we have not asked for help from,no shelters,no food pantrys, no government help,no FEMA, we have tried everywhere & everyone, but we are always being denied, for this reason or that. Me & my family need your help desperately..Please any HELP? Suggestions, Financial Support,Prayer.. We need anything & everything that anyone would be so kind to offer.
We have no one to help us, my parents passed away in the Hurricane & my husbands parents live on a fixed income,no banks will help us because our credit was destroyed due to Hurricane Katrina, no churches[they are only able to help so many times, then that is all], no government help,we have tried them all. By the grace of God, I found this site, now all my hopes,dreams & desires are here.
Thank you for your time, care, patience, for not judging us,for accepting us & for all your understanding, its more appreciated then mere words could ever say…
God Bless You

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RHueyPoohNHarle offline Verified User (11 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Houston, TX, US | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (38 minutes after post)

What disney dreams are you refering too? You lost me…..
This is the thired time we have been asked to moved and NOW we have too, we have NO place to go and dont know waht to do.

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RHueyPoohNHarle offline Verified User (11 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Houston, TX, US | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (51 minutes after post)

Thanks alot, so sorry for misspellings,just overwelmed with everything.
I have found very few sites, and I have asked for help, believe me, but no one seems to know what to do, just alot of other sites to ask for help and still NO HELP. I can provide proof, of everything I say, i can pour my heart and soul out, but there seems to be NO HELP for me and my family. By the way, we are not under no lease, we rent month to month,& he says he has been kind enough to let us stay through last year and the holidays but now we have to move, he has given us 30 days, THAT IS ALL.
WE NEED A FIANCIAL BLESSING……………

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RHueyPoohNHarle changed the tags on this post: they were "hurricane katrina, food, god, Money, Family, matter, Year, Government, Church, Find" 11 months, 3 weeks ago.

RHueyPoohNHarle offline Verified User (11 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Houston, TX, US | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (1 hour after post)

I have no glue what TAGS are, can someone please help me with that… Confused….

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RHueyPoohNHarle offline Verified User (11 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Houston, TX, US | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (1 hour, 19 minutes after post)

There is no rock, I have not overturned, no place I have no asked for help, no person I have not begged. I could write a book on all the places that say they can help and when you apply, all of the sudden, their funds have ran out, or you are denied because your husband makes too much, he makes 17.00 an hour when he gets to work.
Millions upon millions were donated world wide to help with Hurricane victims, where is it? Where did it go?
We have yet to see any of it?
God Bless

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RHueyPoohNHarle changed the tags on this post: they were "financial help" 11 months, 3 weeks ago.

RHueyPoohNHarle offline Verified User (11 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Houston, TX, US | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (1 hour, 40 minutes after post)

Rent and general needs,Im sure ??????
Are you being sarcastic?????
Thats alright if you are, I have been through that too.. A mother endures whatever she has too,she goes through whatever she has too, she loses her pride and she gets belittled, made fun of and laughed at when she has a family, that needs help, I promise you that. But she learns, she hardens and she keeps asking for help.
So I thank you, for all your kind words.
God Bless

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RHueyPoohNHarle offline Verified User (11 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Houston, TX, US | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (1 hour, 48 minutes after post)

OMG
Wait I just seen where someone posted where my son, Jacob was asking questions about how to work for Disney………………
OMGGGGGGGGGGGGG
My son is 12 years old, he thought if he could find a way to be an actor and work for Disney, since that has always been his dream that we would be able to have things again, like food in the pantry, clothes that actually fit him and his brothers, if anyone would take the time to read his posts and see when they are, he he asking please for someone to help him.
THE PERSON THAT POST THIS MESSAGE ABOVE, must have a perfect life, and lives on hurting or belittling people.
But you wont bring my spirit down, I have lived through far worse then you honey, I promise you that.
But next time, dont pick on a child.
He was looking for a way to help his family.
God Bless

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Grego offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
Okanagan, BC, CA | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (3 hours, 29 minutes after post)

You can also post at these online charities. I sent u a shout. http://digitalcharity.com, http://www.cyberbeg.com, http://my-donation.com or http://www.modestneeds.org

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RHueyPoohNHarle offline Verified User (11 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Houston, TX, US | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (4 hours, 29 minutes after post)

OH Gosh, thank you so much, what is a shout? Please! But thnak you so very much, with all my heart and soul I thank you, I will go and check them out ASAP…
God Bless

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Grego offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
Okanagan, BC, CA | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (4 hours, 39 minutes after post)

Ashout is up in the right corner of this page. It allows ppl (people) to send quick messages to one another away from the Help postings. Please don’t be offended by anyone who isn’t sensitive to the pain others go through in a tragedy like yours. It’s only because there have been ppl who come on here who are lazy and want a hand-out. Most are probably scams too. But, I can see by the size of your letter and the contents that you are being honest and are desperate for help, Robin.

Still, if I was financially able to give anyone a lot of money right now to help them, I would want to be on a phone with them and would want proof of their circumstances. Only because there are too many scammers comin on sites like this to get a quick buck to support their drug abuse and alcoholism.

So don’t be offended if your ont received well by some people. This site is more of a place where ppl come to ask questions and give advice or share ideas.
I hope those charity sites can be helpful to you. Many ppl use them, so make sure you place your whole story on there for donors to see. Maybe even provide a phone number or email address for them to contact you directly on those sites.

Most of them use Paypal for ppl to send and receive donations.

I can’t promise it will work, but it’s worth a try at least.

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RHueyPoohNHarle offline Verified User (11 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Houston, TX, US | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (4 hours, 56 minutes after post)

Oh thank you so much dear friend and I would be happy to give anyone my phone number, here it is 281-456-0056,and here is my e-mail address [(email removed)].I also have my Fema registeration number and all my documents. I dont mind proving that I’m for real, and my need is for real.
And I thank you so much for taking the time to try and talk to me, to try and help me, to try and even listen to me, it means more to me, then I think you will ever really know.
God Bless

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RHueyPoohNHarle offline Verified User (11 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Houston, TX, US | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (5 hours, 27 minutes after post)

Dear Friend….
I went to your site, what do I do now???
And please let me know, if you are going to call me, and I will get off the computer. I cant afford good internet service,so if I’m on the computer you get a busy signal or it just rings.I have a free 30 day trail disk from people pc.
God Bless

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RHueyPoohNHarle offline Verified User (11 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Houston, TX, US | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (8 hours, 56 minutes after post)

Phone 281-456-0056, email RHueyPoohNHarleyatmsncom, you can read between the lines. Thank you
God Bless

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Grego offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
Okanagan, BC, CA | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (16 hours, 7 minutes after post)

Hi Robin,

Sorry. I was offline for several hours. I will communicate with you by email from now on and I’ve written down your number. Maybe others on here who have a giving heart might try to call you and see what they can do for you as well. You never know. I’m presently limited myself right now financially. This always seems to happen close to Christmas time.

I’ve sent you an email and I hope it makes it to your email inbox successfully (due to all those spam filters nowadays).
I really can’t afford at this time to call people long distance out of my country so I prefer to communicate by email for now if that’s alright. However, I will pass your phone number along to someone I think will be able to help you in this situation. I’m glad that you are willing to provide proof as this will be needed probably. We have to separate the scammers from the honest people out there.

Also . . . according to the rules here at Help.com, only those 13 and up can be on here. I think you said earlier that your son had made a post and that he’s 12 yrs old. I understand that he’s trying to reach out for help too and get some answers from people regarding a job at Disney, but please be advised that this site is strictly meant for ages 13+ . Since you mentioned that he’s 12yrs old, Help.com will now be aware of it and they cannot knowingly allow anyone under 13 to be using Help.com

If you go to the top of this page and look through the FAQs, you will find this question and answer. . .

Why can’t people younger than 13 years old use Help.com?

It is illegal for Help.com to knowingly allow children younger than 13 years of age to join the Help.com member community. This rule exists because Help.com complies with the U.S. government’s Children’s Online Privacy Protection Act of 1998 (COPPA).

Just so you know. It is for his own safety.

One last thing . . .
There are over 90 million people that make up the USA. There are also millionaires and even some billionaires in this great country. Those guys/gals can live off just the interest that accumulates every month. Would be nice if they gave some of that interest to those who are struggling due to hurricanes, fires, tornadoes and mass floods.

If EVERYONE across the land was willing to give up just $5.00 or $10.00 of their own money, once a month, you multiply that by the population, and have all the money sent to a special fund for victims of Hurricane Katrina and also those thousands of people in California right now without a home due to forest fires. If everyone was willing to give at least that amount of money (and the rich people give at least a $million or more. lol) each month, there would be plenty of funds pouring in every month to help people like yourself. If everyone gave just a $10 GIFT per month of their own spending money (which is usually spent on coffee, junk food and other pleasures) then there would be over $900 Million dollars per month pouring into an emergency fund and then distributed amongst you families to help you. All in gifts. But sadly this is not the case.

There is ALOT of money out there. None of those people and their children should have to be still stuck today. There is so much selfishness and many “rich” and so called “famous” people and self-made millionaires flaunting their riches, who can give up some of their money to help more than they do. Princess Diana was very popular and yet she was generous and helped needy people around the world. She wasn’t selfish like many people today are. Too bad she’s no longer around.

If only 90 million people would just be willing to reach out with at least $5 or $10, none of these families like yourself would be stuck like this. There are still hurricane survivors who are struggling to get their lives back together and now there are going to be people in California (who have lost their homes and stuff from wild fires) reaching out for help in the coming weeks and months. If 90 million people gave imperishable food items and clothing to these victims, that would even help.

The problem is that most people don’t want to get involved and say that it’s not their problem or they think that someone else will look after it. Now if most people think that way, then no wonder nothing is getting accomplished.

Anyway Robin, I sent you an email and will keep in touch with you and your family and see what I can do for you.

Make sure you sign up with those charity sites I gave you and hopefully there will be some kind people who will reach out. Place your phone number on those charity sites so that donors can actually talk to you personally.

Blessings,
*hug*
Greg :)

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RHueyPoohNHarle offline Verified User (11 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Houston, TX, US | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (1 day, 7 hours after post)

Thank you so much….
No, my son never posted here, someone on here[this site] had found a post off of another site, and put the link here for all to see, like it was a big deal that my son was asking for help, ect. I believe a non believer, or someone that thought we were lying.
I’m so sorry if there was a misunderstaning in that matter and I’m so sorry that I have now just been able to get on the computer, I will check my e-mail asap.
God Bless You

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Grego offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
Okanagan, BC, CA | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (1 day, 11 hours after post)

Oh okay, no need to be sorry. Waiting for your email reply to my Oct.26th email I sent you.

:)

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