She now is 21 years old and has a 1 year old son.
She called me a few days ago telling me she was living in a shelter and she hates it, everyone is mean to her and people are trying to take away her son. She said she wanted to move back to our hometown where she knew she had family and friends. So my friend and I were trying to get stuff in order. Today she calls me to tell me she is pregant, and she doesnt know who the babys daddy is but she thinks its between three guys. She no longer thinks she wants to move because her boyfriend wont let her, and even if its not his he wants to take care of it. He is soo good to her and treats her right she said. Then why are they both living in a shelter? I am not saying bad people live in shelters, but I know the types of people she hangs out with. The thing is, I’ve been here again and again and again with her. She always calls me up talking about how she is sooo in love and this guy is different, “no shawna, he is really different this time”. I’ve heard this before. I cant help but think she is making a huge irresponisble mistake. Again she is choosing a man over her and her son. I have always been the person to support her, lover her, and never give up. I’ve always remained calm and she listend to me, and respected what I said even if she didnt want to hear it. But I am soo upset right now. I love this girl so much. My husband is no help to me at all. He doesnt like any of my sisters ( I have three), he doesnt understand that my sisters and I have been through a lot together, more then most sisters. I just need other advice on this, not just ignore her or who cares. I am sorry she is my sister, I care and I cant ignore her. So what can I do? I know she has to want to change or she wont, but she just needs that relationship with a guy so bad she doesnt think clearly. I was like that before too, I always had to have a man, that security. The difference is, I didnt make that my man focus. I dont know what to do. Any advice on what to do? I truly need help. I am pretty much the only one she’ll listen too. The rest of my family has given up on her. I cant do that. She is beautiful, smart and has a huge heart. She just needs a kick in the butt..Anyways..I dont know if anyone has anything good to say…advice wise…I guess I just needed to take some of this weight off my shoulders, even for a second.
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I want to talk about my sister. She is 2 years younger than me. When she turned 18 she moved in with her birth father whom she had met prior to 3 months before her birthday. She was only 3 months away from high school graduation but she dropped out to move in with him. Things got bad between the two of them and she moved in with some friends, some her new friends introduced their friends to my sister and she ended up moving to New York, and then California, and then Washington, D.C, Pennsylvania, Cincinatti and now she is in Kentucky. She was into drugs, prositution, and much more. She actually got busted for it once but she moved to PA before she had to take court ordered classes. She now is 21 years old and has a 1 year old son. She called me a few days ago telling me she was living in a shelter and she hates it, everyone is mean to her and people are trying to take away her son. She said she wanted to move back to our hometown where she knew she had family and friends. So my friend and I were trying to get stuff in order. Today she calls me to tell me she is pregant, and she doesnt know who the babys daddy is but she thinks its between three guys. She no longer thinks she wants to move because her boyfriend wont let her, and even if its not his he wants to take care of it. He is soo good to her and treats her right she said. Then why are they both living in a shelter? I am not saying bad people live in shelters, but I know the types of people she hangs out with. The thing is, I’ve been here again and again and again with her. She always calls me up talking about how she is sooo in love and this guy is different, “no shawna, he is really different this time”. I’ve heard this before. I cant help but think she is making a huge irresponisble mistake. Again she is choosing a man over her and herself. I have always been the person to support her, lover her, and never give up. I’ve always remained calm and she listend to me, and respected what I said even if she didnt want to hear it. But I am soo upset right now. I love this girl so much. My husband is no help to me at all. He doesnt like any of my sisters ( I have three), he doesnt understand that my sisters and I have been through a lot together, more then most sisters. I just need other advice on this, not just ignore her or who cares. I am sorry she is my sister, I care and I cant ignore her. So what can I do? I know she has to want to change or she wont, but she just needs that relationship with a guy so bad she doesnt think clearly. I was like that before too, I always had to have a man, that security. The difference is, I didnt make that my man focus. I dont know what to do. Any advice on what to do? I truly need help. I am pretty much the only one she’ll listen too. The rest of my family has given up on her. I cant do that. She is beautiful, smart and has a huge heart. She just needs a kick in the butt..Anyways..I dont know if anyone has anything good to say…advice wise…I guess I just needed to take some of this weight off my shoulders, even for a second.
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