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well me and my b/f have been datin for almost 3 months!!!…witch is a great thing…the only problem is he lives almost 2 hours away!!!! yea thats far..we only get to c eachother on weekends!!! every time we c eachother it gets harder to say good bye… some times i wonder if it would be better to call off the relationship..but if i do im afraid im making the biggewst mistake in my life!!! what should i do????????????? please help me!!!!!

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Snar offline Verified User (2 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 41 Add Friend #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 1 month ago (24 minutes after post)

Me and my girlfiend live half a continent away. Point being… if you love someone, distance shouldn’t matter. I’d kill to live two hours away, I live a 3 hour plane ride away.

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bfriend3 offline Verified User (2 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 Add Friend #
Pleasanton, CA, US | 2 years, 1 month ago (34 minutes after post)

Snar is right.

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Mutilatedwonderland offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 Add Friend #
Pittsburgh, PA, US | 2 years, 1 month ago (37 minutes after post)

When I was dating my ex, we only got to see one another on the weekends. And every time we saw each other, despite that it was hard to say good-bye, we were happier and more grateful to see one another.

But Snar is very right; the distance should not matter between you two. Just be happy when you do get to see him. :]

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Pennington, NJ, US | 2 years, 1 month ago (2 hours, 4 minutes after post)

well thats what i keep trying to tell my self…but its hard when u have that little voice in ur head sayin….what is he doin…and who is he with…i try real hard not to but still….i love him with all my heart…

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Muir Of Ord, V3, GB | 2 years, 1 month ago (2 hours, 30 minutes after post)

Being further away from someone makes you appreciate the time you do spend together. If you lived next door you would probably be moaning about how you never have any time to yourself lol. If everything else is good then why finish with him?

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