Sibling help: Hi my sister just miscarried and I am 33 weeks pregnant. - Help.com

southerngabel
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Hi my sister just miscarried and I am 33 weeks pregnant.

They were tring before I found out I was pregnant. I didnt even mean to get pregnant. It was a total shock and I could tell it hurt her. Now this is happen and I am obvisoly showing I dont know what to do for her I dont want to hurt her by her seeing me with child and I want to be there for her I just dont know what to do!!

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Shie offline Verified User (11 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 236 #
Gloversville, NY, US | 10 months, 2 weeks ago (5 hours, 41 minutes after post)

She is your sister.. talk with her.. let her know that you are hurting as well and why…

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tomboi2007 offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 10 months, 2 weeks ago (10 hours, 50 minutes after post)

she’ll probably be completely fine with it and take it better then you think

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lynn1319 offline Verified User (10 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Omaha, NE, US | 10 months, 1 week ago (1 week after post)

My sister-in-law also had a miscarrage and it was sad but she got through it okay and she got pregnant again; she’s due on Nov. 25. All you can do is be supportive and be there for her but she needs to do the same for you.

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southerngabel offline Verified User (10 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Douglasville, GA, US | 10 months ago (1 week, 1 day after post)

Thank you!

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brokenpoet121 offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Charleston, WV, US | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (3 weeks after post)

Yes, it is nice that you feel bad for her, I can tell you must be close so it is normal and natural.

It’s not like you got pregnant to spite her. Not at all…I think in time she will be happy for her and possibly try for another child?

Again you have your life to live too and you can’t put it on hold. If she loves you, like I’m sure she does she will be happy for you and it won’t be a fake smile or emotion.

Let her know you care for her and you’re sorry, which I’m sure you already have.
Good luck!

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brokenpoet121 offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Charleston, WV, US | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (3 weeks after post)

she will be happy for *you* not her, sorry about that!

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