Relationships help: How do I get back with my ex ? - Help.com

Dont do what I did, and that’s not give your ex space. When ever you talk to you ex be happy not fake happy, just stay positive. The worst thing you can do is be jealous and talk bad about who ever she might be seeing at the time. Go out and try to have a good time. I know its sucks knowing that she might be out with some one else, but women like men who are positive and confident. Also do things to make yourself happy, go places you haven’t been or wanted to go.

Not on a regular basis but ever now and then give you’re ex a call. If she doesn’t answer or call back, do not leave like 5 messages on her phone, leave one message and dont sound desperate. Simply tell her you were just wounding how she has been. If she happens to answer do not talk about you and her getting back together, keep the conversation light, mention all the cool stuff you been doing with out her, but do not boost, ask how shes been.

If all goes as plan and you keep a cool head, she will start calling you again, do not invite her on any of your new life adventures even if its just going to the movies, don’t be rude just tell her you made plans to hang out with the guys or what ever and you cant break them. Always stay positive and keep the charm going. After a while do some thing you think both of you would want to do, like a concert or play or something, plan it way in advance. Give her a call and ask if she would like to go. Always have a back up person to go with, that way your not out 100 bucks and you still will have a good time. Stay positive and don’t take it personal if she doesn’t call back right away

Remember if one door closes two doors open. Hang in there and keep your options open, you may just find the real love or your life some where else.

Good luck

from Justhappy2Bhere

I used to think the same thing about my ex but dude you never need a girl friend in fact sometimes its better not to especiely if you think you “need” one