Love help: Why am I still seeing the guy Im in love with when all I get are crumbs of his attention after 4 years? - Help.com

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There are a few reasons why you might be slipping down the list of priorities”

1) He takes you for granted, all the way to
10) He’s got so much other junk to deal with that he doesn’t have anything left when he gets home.

You need to take some time to figure out what the real situation is. (You might try talking about it! Get away for a weekend and compare notes.) Once you do that, then you will have an idea of how to go about fixing it.

I know how you feel, sometimes I feel the same way, I also work with my boyfriend, which makes it especially hard sometimes, but were going to have a baby, so Im hoping that helps our relationship a lot, it also doesnt help that between the two of us we have like 5000 dollars in debt, which adds to the stress we have, so no worries Im kinda in the same boat as you. We are going to start date day, which is a day for just me and him, to spend together all day snuggling hanging out at the movies, ect… it gives us time to focus on each other instead of everything else