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i love mcr!Oh um mabey you should talk to a church leader or your school counsolor.But dont run away

Your parents will always love you because that’s their job. They shouldn’t go around hating you just if you get a bad grade or make a mistake, they should be proud of you because you’re their kid. But if they are seriously hurting you then you should talk to someone. And don’t run away.

Heck Yes! But um,ur parents shouldnt hit you.Do you think what they do to u is abuse?

Oh ok.Ya well somtimes verbal abuse hurts more than phisical.What does he say to u?

That’s still really bad, because he is putting you down. You should talk to someone. What about your mum?

That’s pretty awful. You’re allowed to wear whatever you want!
How about your sister? Does she know what’s happening? Could you talk to her about it?

okay cool

wait you have to change it again, try and reword it more.

Yeah, she’ll be to young to understand. I know what you mean, like how you feel that no one is on your side. Do you have any other family members you could talk to about it.

Do you think it’s abuse, or is it just your dad being really horrible?
If it is abuse then he can get into heaps of trouble for doing that to you.

This sounds like what you are going through:EMOTIONAL ABUSE

Verbal abuse is basically belittling or shaming a child: name-calling, making negative comparisons to others, telling the child he or she is “no good,” “worthless,” “a mistake.”

Habitual blaming: telling the child that everything is his or her fault.

Withholding affection: Ignoring or disregarding the child

Lack of affection and warmth: Failure to hug, praise, express love for the child

The signs of emotional child abuse include apathy, depression, and hostility.

Does this happen to you?

So who else is there you can talk to?

Yeah talk to a counselor because they can give you professional advice :) your friends may not be as good if you don’t know them too well and also because they might not understand.

Try to get on your parent’s good side as much as you can. I know it’s going to be hard if they’re mean to you all the time but if they end up leaving you alone then you’ll feel happier.

Smile :) You are a great person and you are bound to have someone willing to listen

No worries that’s what I’m here for :D

It’s probably best not to talk to them if you’ve only just met them.

What year are you in at school?

So like in year 9?

Year 10 :) 2 more years!

Are you a girl or a boy?

Me too

What’s your name

Nice name :D I’m Sophie.

Are you feeling better now?

No problem

What are you doing today?

That’s really cool! Do you celebrate heaps for Halloween?
We don’t really here, although we do have the odd witch or vampire turning up on our doorstep.

Ha! Harry Potters Rule! That’s really bad about the eggs and toilet paper…

What are you going as?

yeah it was so good, but the ending was really predictable, and how he called his kids Lily, James and Albus…OMG. That’s a really cool costume.

What time is it where you are?

Lol. And it was also really bad how Ron married Hermione and Harry married Ginny, but I was so surprised when Neville became a professor! I thought that was really good.

6 pm eh? There must be heaps of people out then.

It’s about 9 am here

Yeah sure!

See you later have fun and be happy. :D :D :D :D

And tell me how you go with your parents.

Thanks!

Eat heaps of candy for me :D MCR rock I love Welcome To The Black Parade…

Anyway you better go…. BYE!

that’s great! :)

there’s a concert in australia this month, i couldn’t go unfortunately.

MCRs

do you know Crowded House? I’m going to their concert next week for my birthday! Really excited.

good night! have a good sleep

and don’t worry about anything!