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My girlfriend dumped me on my b-day, and now she wants me back.

But she lives almost 1000 miles away because she moved. I want a girlfriend that lives closer 2 me, but i still like her. What do i do

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Excessor1 offline Verified User (2 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years ago (2 minutes after post)

Tell her exactly how you feel. Tell her you do like her but it would probably best to just stay friends for now. Not only that, but if she dumped you once before, she may likely do it again. But the decision is yours. What would make you most happy?

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emeraldcarbonfibe offline Unverified User #
Bloomfield Hills, MI, US | 2 years ago (24 minutes after post)

Im the guy who posted, She’s dumped me several times, and we got back together several times. I’m taking Excessor1’s advice, im going 2 tell her how i feel, but we r just going 2 stay friends.

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chloehesket offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (8 months after post)

my boyfriend kept leaving me. the more you take them back the more it hurts. He went to walk out on me again last night and I flipped. dont get to this stage. its unpleasant and hurts you more in the long run. your dignity has already gone and when you finally have the last straw you end up letting yourself down because the hurt makes you act badly. youre not a mug. please save yourself the pain and love yourself more. they arent worth it no matter how much you love them. a selfish person only breaks your heart.x

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