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ok i have been dating this guy for 3 years.
at first he was awsome…he loved me so much he never wanted to do anything without me…he called just to say i love you. i was his first real girlfriend..however i was more experienced. everything was great until about a year into the relationship…he started to argue with me alot…nothing serious..he was just more bullheaded. he broke up with me after a year..with no explanation..just left…he wanted to get back together with me after a week..i played hard to get. but he got really sad and i felt his pain due to what he had done to me. so we got back together. we fight everyday over the most stupidest stuff. last year i went to college and we stayed together. and we seemed to get along more because we spent more time apart. we talkked on the phone everyday and couldnt wait for christmas to come. so finally christmas came and he came and picked me up. WE WERE SOOOO HAPPY!….i was home for christmas for about 5 days when he called me one night and just broke up with me…he was drunk!…i cryed the whole break..i called him everyday and asked him y??????…he said he dont know..plain and simple. so we stayed broke up. on new years he called me and told me he still loved me and he made a mistake.I was soo happy!..so we spent the night together. the next day i was leaving to go back to college and i was getting a bus back..he said he would come meet me…BUT NEVER SHOWED…my heart was torn in half. so i went back to college and started to get over him…a few weeks later i got a phone call and it was my x’s sister…she told me he had got in a bad car accidnet…he alomost died. she told me he loved me and wanted to talk to me but he couldnt then. so 2 days later he called me and said how much he loved me and made a mistake..and he was not going to drink anymore…so we got back together and made plans for him to come up in february. he came and we spent a whole week together!..it was beautiful:)…when he went to leave he looked at me and said i promise to never hurt u again..and he left. a week later it was valentines day…he didnt CALL!!….he called me the next day and said sorry he was drunk…i had enough and i broke up with him for 4 months…I missed him everyday but i just knew i couldnt be hurt anymoire. I moved on and started dating..but i felt sick to my stomach when i would go to kiss someone else…bc i still loved HIM!…i went home for the summer and we got back together..LOL…after that i dont know what happend…he is different. he didnt drink anymore but he started to always be cranky…he shut down on me. whenever i cry he just stares at me without a word…he hates feelings. so it was a bumpy ride ever since. i am back at college now and when i go home to see him on the weekds everything is perfect we laugh and enjoy each other. but as soon as i come back to college he ignores me. he doesnt call me when he says he is going to. he says ill call u tonight and i will stay up all night waiting and no phone call!..when i tell him how i feel he just says Im sorry..and expects me to drop it. I AM SO CONFUSED!…when i am home he talks about how he cant live without how i am his world and he wants to marry me and have babies…but when i come back here he goes parties with his friends and doesnt call. Please HelP me i know i sound pathetic but i love him sooo much:(…
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