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how do i get the person i love back if she does not love me.?


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asal_hotti offline Verified User (2 years) Long Term User Shouts: 0 Add Friend #
Los Angeles, CA, US | 2 years ago (1 minute after post)

ignor her…i know u think its funny but ignoring alwasy works,,,once u ignore her she will come back..belive me

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Mutilatedwonderland offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 Add Friend #
Pittsburgh, PA, US | 2 years ago (6 minutes after post)

Mm… I wouldn’t go with ‘ignoring her’. If she’s a friend, that could hurt her.

Honestly, you can’t make someone love you. It’s sad, but true. I love a boy, but he’ll never feel the same back for me. However, that’s seriously just life - you win some and you lose some.

Yet, there is a chance. Be patient; patience is key. If you continue to hang with her, be nice to her, be there for her, etc, than she may come back to you. Yet, there is no remedy that is a surefire way.

I hope this helps.

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BrodyKemp offline Verified User (2 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 11 Add Friend #
Bend, OR, US | 2 years ago (37 minutes after post)

You don’t.

Sorry.

I had to come to grips with this, too.
You can’t make someone love.

See above:
“Honestly, you can’t make someone love you. It’s sad, but true.
Yet, there is a chance. Be patient; patience is key. If you continue to hang with her, be nice to her, be there for her, etc, than she may come back to you.”

…good advice. The only problem with this, is that you’ll have to sit there and watch as she tries to date loser, after loser (in your eyes). Hopefully, (if you are able to stomach seeing the girl you love be with other men) she’ll realize that you were the best of them all…and back to you she will come.
However, things will never be the same…

Sorry.

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Casper offline Verified User (2 years) Long Term User Shouts: 0 Add Friend #
Santa Clara, CA, US | 2 years ago (52 minutes after post)

Honestly, you pursuing her any more will probably just have an negative effect and push her away, making you look in her eyes as clingy and or desperate.
Cut your losses, meet some new people, and fall in love again :).

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An Undisclosed Location | 2 years ago (1 hour, 1 minute after post)

feelings are not dictated. the only thing you can do now is to sit and wait til she considers to know you better and make her man.
oh never mind the sitting and waiting, meet someone else :o)

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An Unknown Location | 4 months, 3 weeks ago (1 year, 8 months after post)

there is no way if you broke up its becuz it wasnt meant to be im learning that as of now dated the love of my life for 2 years and been without him for about 7 months and it still hurts like hell but u have to come to your senses and realize that its over

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An Unknown Location | 3 months, 4 weeks ago (1 year, 9 months after post)

some stupid comments if its true love she loves you as well and maybe in the future you guys will be together, hoe often do u hear about lost love back together years later. all the time, if it’s meant to be it will be but until u both are grown leave her alone unless she needs you!

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