Love help: I still in love with my ex-bf, but i’m going out with his best friend. - Help.com



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I still in love with my ex-bf, but i’m going out with his best friend.

I love them both so much. According to a mutual friend they both like me alot. But nethier of them have said they love me. I don’t no if i should go back, stay, or forget about both of them. I couldn’t leave them both. It would kill me.

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♪The Music of Love offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Santa Barbara, CA, US | 2 years ago (2 minutes after post)

i kno it’s hard but u have to choose cuz it’s not going to fair to the other person.

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Help me with: I cant sleep yet again so instead of the history I should be working on I was wondering if its common to look in the mirror
ClosedAcount offline Verified User (2 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years ago (27 minutes after post)

Doesn’t seem like you’re ready to be in a monogamous relationship with anyone. Not fair to make someone think he/she is the only one you want, when you’re loving someone else too.

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paulz44 offline Verified User (2 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
Las Vegas, NV, US | 2 years ago (1 hour, 25 minutes after post)

look love them all becouse when you loose the rel one you will know becouse it will hurt for ever and you will never replace the one just live on dreams , I lost my wife 54 days ago and never cheated one time three beautiful daughters , 4 , 8 , 11 the geatest thing that could have ever happend to me ,, So when you talk about love think WHEN IT IS TRUE YOU WILL KNOW any one and every one should say I love you to all people that you meet but there is only one wait many true loves mother father wife kidds and wait 1st ande formost the allmighty lord bless US ALL AND NEVER SLEEP WITH OUT THE ANGELS

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paulz44 offline Verified User (2 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
Las Vegas, NV, US | 2 years ago (1 hour, 30 minutes after post)

WELL say somthing please

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paulz44 offline Verified User (2 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
Las Vegas, NV, US | 2 years ago (1 hour, 33 minutes after post)

Well i guess that you have nothing that can conpare!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! please say somthing

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paulz44 offline Verified User (2 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
Las Vegas, NV, US | 2 years ago (1 hour, 37 minutes after post)

JUST LOVE ,you will figure it all out sooner or latter

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