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I really like this girl and she likes me we spent Halloween

together at her house and I acted so **** wirerd she gave me a hug that was like you turned me off she cooked me food and everthing I was not comfortable at all at her house I was in awe at the size of it more than my interest in her and now she is given me these one word answers like someone who don’t like me she has already mentioned goin somewhere with another guy when I asked her if she wanted to see a movie how do I let her now I wasn’t myself she is also a co worker so I can see her I just don’t know wat to say please help do I just come out wit it or let it go

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gruva offline Verified User (2 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Saint-Clément, A9, FR | 2 years, 1 month ago (12 minutes after post)

Just ask her for a talk to have an occasion to justify yourself. My english is not very good (as you can read) so I did not rally understand what you did to her but I imagine you have been “too friendly”. This was a negative a bad fact, you must create positives ones in balance knowing one bad fact destroy many positives ones as usual.

Pay attention to her, hear what she has to tell you, seems she is hungry, so get ready hearing unconfortable things.

I am a man, think there are women here who know better than me what to do.

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eqspike offline Verified User (2 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
US | 2 years, 1 month ago (1 hour, 52 minutes after post)

This is two step possible solution.

1. Don’t talk to her for at least 4 days. If she talks to you, try and avoid the conversation or give her the one word answers.

2. If after 4 days or longer you feel the same, Just say, “hey I wanted to apologize for acting strange the other night, on Halloween.” Explain yourself as casually as possible, and then say, “I hope you won’t hold against me, because I’m not always like that.”

Don’t say more. Make it brief. Give your apology and explanation than get away from her. Don’t talk to her again.

This will give her time to think about it, and realize how great you are, and that maybe she should give you a chance.

Once she talks to you again, then go back to normal. If she doesn’t talk to you again, then just move on, because she wasn’t the one.

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kittykatkate92 offline Verified User (2 years) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Tulare, CA, US | 2 years ago (3 weeks after post)

Well we girls use one word answers when we are unsure of ourselves. I do it alot. She probubly isnt sure if she is interested or not. Let her figure it out, and just show your support.

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tae offline Verified User (2 years, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
Conyers, GA, US | 2 years ago (3 weeks after post)

thanks kittykatkate again. this was the same girl, i apologized to her and now we all good

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kittykatkate92 offline Verified User (2 years) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Tulare, CA, US | 2 years ago (3 weeks, 1 day after post)

That’s great Tae, I love finding out that someone was able to patch things up. Love can be odd, I have come to see that alot. But remember if she gets mad at you, give her space, but don’t just act like it never happened. Sometimes we get carried away, and it makes us feel you don’t care about our feelings if you drop it and act like it never happened. Girls like to talk, I am a girl know it for sure, and we have alot of emotions. Hang in there though, it’s worth it in the end.

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