Love help: For some reason, i have been feeling very Depressed.

Tobirocus

For some reason, i have been feeling very Depressed.

so much that to the point of wanting my life to end.

i have recently fallen in love with a girl from my school. i dont think she likes me, but i dont know, we dont talk very often. yet, for some reason i cant let her go, but i am falling for one of my other friends aswell…

what can i do? i want to die, but i dont want to hurt myself, i dont want to be alone, but i dont want to be with someone that doesnt love me back. my life sucks and i just wish it would end

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San Francisco, CA, US | 11 months, 1 week ago (0 minutes after post)

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Shie 199 #
Gloversville, NY, US | 11 months, 1 week ago (3 minutes after post)

it sounds that with your depression.. you are very lonely… maybe you are falling for these girls because they show you a little of attention and you are reading too far into it… PLEASE UNDERSTAND, YOU ARE STILL YOUNG… any female in your life… now or later on… IS NEVER WORTH ENDING YOUR LIFE OVER…

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Tobirocus 5 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 1 week ago (4 minutes after post)

the friend i am falling for is interested in me, but doesnt want to be a rebound girl

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Shie 199 #
Gloversville, NY, US | 11 months, 1 week ago (5 minutes after post)

so why dont you just be friends… do all the friend things.. and have things happen when she is ready…

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Tobirocus 5 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 1 week ago (8 minutes after post)

because im afraid

of hurting her, of hurting myself, of rejection. people feel fear, i am fear. i cant get rid of it, its a part of me that i dont want, that i cant clense.

im afraid..

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Shie 199 #
Gloversville, NY, US | 11 months, 1 week ago (10 minutes after post)

can you explain why you are having this fear? i mean.. what kinds of fear are you having… how do you feel you will be rejected.. how do you feel that you could possibly hurt her?

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Tobirocus 5 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 1 week ago (13 minutes after post)

we all feel fear, for some its stronger than others, for me its something that i have to go through with everything i do. i cant do something with out first thinking it through with myself, because im afraid of what might happen after i do it.

i dont want to hurt her because she is special, and i know i will most likely do something stupid. it has happened countless times to me b4. i dont want to have a relationship with her and have her fall deeply into me, only to brake it away because im scared of what might happen next

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Hamilton, ON, CA | 11 months, 1 week ago (36 minutes after post)

It might be reasonable to talk to this girl about how you feel - insecurities and all. If she really does care for you then she would be very receptive and sensitive to your feelings. Being afraid of something isn’t a bad thing, so long as you don’t let fear overwhelm you - trust me about this one, I have had quite serious anxiety attacks in the past.

Having someone to talk about your feelings to can be a great help.

Also, I do know that sometimes hurting yourself can sometimes seem like the only course of action left to you. It isn’t. If you are really being bothered by those types of thoughts then please go have a chat with your family doctor. It made a great deal of difference to me.

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rstorku 1 #
AU | 11 months, 1 week ago (51 minutes after post)

i understand you to an extent - i don’t have the relationship worries but i was suffering from anxiety for quite some time - i got help - and it helped. I used to be afraid of so many things i felt so tired living - i never wanted to commit suicide because i didn’t want to hurt others but it seemed so tiring to have to fight all these fears. I have a feeling that you care alot about other people - don’t hurt yourself - no matter what u need to know there are people, there is someone who will always love you or care for you - as corny as it may sound many of the corny things are true. As for the girl - go slow - be a friend before your anything else and make sure you truly respect her - body, soul, mind - before you become a boyfriend. if you treat her with respect and never as an object (i’m not saying that you would), don’t do anything that is sensible or rude, then you shouldn’t have anything to fear - you’ll know the real reasons why you like her, if she likes you - if she is worth you liking her and you won’t be blinded by any sort of misguided or physical prejudice (again - i’m not saying you would just throwing out general stuff).
Hope you feel better soon - really :)

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Lenora, KS, US | 11 months, 1 week ago (54 minutes after post)

Dude I know what your feeling just went through somethin like that you have to learn to take pleasure in the simpler things like good mornings and good friends and not worry about it so much theres plenty of time. I was feeling the same way and to be blunt just pretty much said F**K em

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spiritedsoul 39 #
Sandgate, G5, GB | 11 months, 1 week ago (1 day, 18 hours after post)

please don’t hurt urself.

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samira_sahar94 #
LY | 8 months, 2 weeks ago (2 months, 3 weeks after post)

dear friend you are not the first person on this planet earth that fallin love. there are more peoplethose who were hurted by their love parents friends and also by those who they love more than their life. the pain or the wound you have got on your heart is not more painfull then others. you hit life not because of you cant make your love sucessful but it is because of the one you love but she do not love you or maybe you dont know about it your problem is the reason you are living you live in sorrows and you want to die but you donot want to hurt yourself is this. that when ever you see the one you love you feel happy inside but the 1 you love when she see you she is still the same happy neither sad but normal. and this is wht makes you crazy when you think about it that she do not love you because if she doesyou will see the same feeling in nher face. this is the reason that makes you sad because you yourself says that she loves you she didnt sayed or thought about it. love hurts Nazareth so who you are.

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Tobirocus 5 #
An Undisclosed Location | 8 months, 2 weeks ago (2 months, 3 weeks after post)

the only thing i dont like is not being able to look her in the eyes…

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rstorku 1 #
AU | 8 months ago (3 months after post)

why can’t you look her in the eyes?
God Bless

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Tobirocus 5 #
An Undisclosed Location | 8 months ago (3 months, 1 week after post)

im not sure, im just a shy person.

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