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Where can we get help for Christmas holidays

Hello we are a family of five and we are in need of some help for the holidays. This year has been very difficult for us me and my husband both lost our jobs and being struggling to provide for our children. I have been looking for work and finally found a job but was taking off of due medical issues. I have type 2 diabetes and its even been hard to fill my prescriptions.My husband has been going to temp services to help us make it through the difficult times but it only getting us by not even enough to pay all of our mortage and other bills. Christmas looks almost impossible for us at this time and it sad to tell your children that santa will not be visiting this year.I’ve tried to get help from our county agency but they couldn’t provide for us at this time. We have not always had the best christmas for our children but at least we were able to have a nice christmas dinner and gifts under the tree. This year if having a christmas tree looks hard due to us being behind on bills. Please help us to have some type of holiday for our three children because they truely dont understand what is going on right now. Very concerned, Family

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Shaun offline Verified User (11 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 1 week ago (5 minutes after post)

ugh ,i dont know its hard for my family they suffer to they still do . i moveout iam only 14 but i’am doing grate

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fairy_b2002 offline Verified User (11 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 1 week ago (5 hours, 45 minutes after post)

see if any of your local churches or clubs american legion or elks or mooses are have angel trees (they place info about the child on a ornament on a tree at department stores and cutomers that are able to select an ornament and pick up gifts for said child on ornament and leave gifts at customer service desk that then gives to organization to wrap and deliver to the families in time for christmas )even see about contacting the salvation army i did an internship there and we would do project bundle up and thanks giving and christmas baskets with dinner fixings there should be something like this in your area

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preciousgirl2194 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 11 months ago (5 days, 18 hours after post)

where can a person get christmas help with food baskets and or presents for the children?

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mamafamilygir offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 11 months ago (6 days after post)

you could always go to a local church.there are two times that we have had to rely on help for christmas and we got clothing and toys for our children once from a weslean church and once from a local baptist church.then of course there is the salvation army and outreach centers.

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mamafamilygir offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 11 months ago (6 days after post)

these places also provide you and yours with a christmas feast

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ampoet26 offline Verified User (11 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Dayton, OH, US | 11 months ago (6 days, 16 hours after post)

Thank you so much for the information .Question do you have to belong to the church and do you just call them or go to see them

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ampoet26 offline Verified User (11 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Dayton, OH, US | 11 months ago (6 days, 16 hours after post)

I got some helpful information from someone I like to share with you. Try local churches and maybe even salvation army. If you can find someone offering angel trees you can add your children name and someone picks their name and gets them gifts.

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banginforchic offline Unverified User #
US | 11 months ago (1 week after post)

where can i find help for my daughters for christmas this year?

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SNIJ offline Unverified User #
US | 11 months ago (1 week after post)

I need help this year for my kids christmas i have been off work due to medical issues with my daughter she been out of school for 2 months how and i have not been able to go back to work because of her beening out of school with her back.so if there are anyone out there to hely with some thanks for christmas please help me and my family this year.

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tinytina72 offline Unverified User #
Falls Church, VA, US | 11 months ago (1 week after post)

I am needing help this year for Christmas also and what i have found is that Salvation Army helps with Toys for Tots, you can sign up there, also look in your yellow pages and call all the churches in there, most of the churches are looking for families for the congregation to buy for, i have received alot of help already from some WONDERFUL churches in my city. Also, if you have a public aid office if you call there they can give you alot of numbers to call for agencies that help out just withing your county….I hope this helps…….Have a very Merry Christmas

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c_montefior offline Unverified User #
Cherry Hill, NJ, US | 11 months ago (1 week after post)

i am amom on my own have been since my 4year old was 2weeks old that is when my ex choked me &broke my nose i have been raising all of my little ones on my own 4;6;13; but the worst of it all is my 4yr is sick she has a feeding tube that she gets feed thouhg everynight so with her health & my health iam unable to work at this time &the father is to pay for us but he doesn’t i’ve taking him to court 2x’s he never showed up & the next time we are do to go will be way after chritmas i have but my name on lists but that is never a sure thing can anyone please help for the kids sake i don’t know what else to do

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shumatebrend offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 11 months ago (1 week, 1 day after post)

I’m a grand parent that needs help to help my grandchildern this christmas I alway get gifts for them cause there mother are low in come but this yeari need help not work because I,m not in the best of health and i don’t have insurence so any if there is any thing anyone can do just write to 4761 e. lancaster ave#257 fort worth texas 76103 or email me at (email removed) i have 8 grands 0 to 13 years of ago i just dont want them to be let down this year if there is any thing you can do to bless these childern may god bless you

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squeaker8209 offline Verified User (11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Evansville, IN, US | 11 months ago (1 week, 2 days after post)

Hello where can i get help with gifts for my daughter,shes 10 years old and still belives in santa,i’m disabled and going to loose my right leg after christmas,if someone can help,i thank you very much,(812)588-2311 name sherri ellison,daughters name is sabryna.

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hlkitty3 offline Verified User (11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Denver, CO, US | 11 months ago (1 week, 3 days after post)

Mom of four in green bay wis.. salvation army here refuses to help me for christmas be cause I am a full time student .. i dont know how i am to do it all this year with no help at all .. any one know ..

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crystalzdrea offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 11 months ago (1 week, 3 days after post)

Take the advice from above. The churches, SCHOOLS, Community centers, local stores with angel trees. These are all good starts for a Merry Christmas for your kids. Swallow your pride, and call on these places for help, THEY WILL HELP. Asking for help is a hard thing to do, but telling your kids there is no santa is even harder.
I also have a stuggling family of 7. I am a full-time student and husband is the only one in the house to pull in an income. I will be asking for help from these places also. JUST remember the recalls on the toys that others purchase for our kids.
I will be thinking of you all in need of help, Because I wish I could. Have a Merry Christmas everyone. Keep it Merry, remember…. even if we have no gifts or very little……We have the greatest gifts of all……..OUR FAMILY! Lots of love, Crystal

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megalen offline Verified User (11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Memphis, TN, US | 11 months ago (1 week, 3 days after post)

Hi I have a family of four and me and my husband both have been laid off from our jobs as well. It is hard for the both us trying to feed, clothe and pay our bills. My children is in need for christmas this year We have a fourteen year old daughter and a nine year old son and they both are looking for items for christmas and it is hard to explain to them that christmas will be limited.

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nettelarr42 offline Verified User (10 months, 4 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Absecon, NJ, US | 10 months, 4 weeks ago (1 week, 5 days after post)

I am in the same situation, my husband was just wrongfully terminated from his job, and I know you prob here that alot but he seriously was, and we are trying to fight I have 5 children one of them are disabled, and now we ca;t even get his meds. I have tried every where but because it is so close to the holidays they are not able to help I am at the point I am just gonna give up on everything…………………

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Hillsboro, OR, US | 10 months, 4 weeks ago (1 week, 5 days after post)

We are a family of 3 i have 2 doughters and i dont have a housband to help me with my doughters expences ,this year i want my two girls to feel special and joyfull.At my job i dont get pay’de as mutch and i can bearlly pay my rent so thats why i need your help in bringing the joy of christmas to my family this year.

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michellemyerly offline Verified User (10 months, 4 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Millersville, MD, US | 10 months, 4 weeks ago (1 week, 6 days after post)

I am a single mom of a 13 year old boy and am in need of help with christmas this year.His dad passed away in july of this year and I’m currently unemployed so if there is a family out there that could put a smile on his face this christmas please e-mail me at (email removed) I’d really appreciate the help.Thanks again Ms.Myerly

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Merchantville, NJ, US | 10 months, 3 weeks ago (2 weeks, 1 day after post)

http://wishuponahero.com/wishes/?id=4118

please visit this site… maybe it can help you a little bit to at least find some resources.. good luck and happy holidays//

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x_sammie_x offline Unverified User #
Des Moines, IA, US | 10 months, 3 weeks ago (2 weeks, 2 days after post)

i have tried all of my local churches, plus the salvation army, plus all the outreach centers in my area, they are just not willing to help me with my 16 month old son, for the salvation army i do not meet the requirements, in order to get anything from the church i have to go thru the outreach center, and the outreach center will not help because my son is not in preschool. its going to be a very hard christmas this year as we had to recently move and we have so many bills that need to be paid :( it would have brightened my day on christmas morning when i got the look of pure joy on my sons face knowin that all the presents under the tree would be for him, but i cant even afford a 25 cent pack of gum, if someone knows any other places, please let me know :(

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shy_own66 offline Unverified User #
Denver, CO, US | 10 months, 3 weeks ago (2 weeks, 2 days after post)

I wish i could do sumthing for those in need but as it is i have 2 baby boys and a lil girl on the way i live in housing and no job. I have no income and I dont think i will even have a christmas. best wishes to everyone!

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churst4403 offline Verified User (10 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Little Rock, AR, US | 10 months, 3 weeks ago (2 weeks, 4 days after post)

like you our family of 6 4 kids under the age of 13 is trying to understand the the same thing. me and my wife both haves jobs but yet we dont have a dime to even buy food to keep in the frid. we have not have gas in our house sence last nov. and now my water got shut off but we keep going on.i stay up all night to think what went wrong and what i can do to fix it but come up with notthing,i truly know what and how you are going though, for years we would help out with our county to help buy christmas gifts for the kids who dont get anything and now i cant even get health cover or food stamps for my kids i truely with you and your family the best of luck and always remember that you have eachother and that is what keeping me going god bless you and yours and i hope you find some kind of happieness. christopher hurst

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Maverick6195 offline Verified User (10 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 3 weeks ago (2 weeks, 4 days after post)

I too am looking for help here in Illinois I have tryed to get help with the angle tree churches and other places to help get things for me two daughters a 5 year old and a 9 year old. I was to late for the angle tree and I can not get help from any of the churches. We did not even have the money or the food for the Thanksgiving this year. I have not worked for two years and fighting to get on Dissability but will have to wait for 22 months to get in front of one of their Judges. So I will not have help this year. My wife is on Dissability but they put someone over her money she can not even get any of it to help out just pay the rent and Bills. Alot of people need help when it comes to the holidays and the only thing I can say is keep trying and hope that God sends you some help.

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ellabar offline Verified User (10 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Lafayette, LA, US | 10 months, 2 weeks ago (3 weeks, 1 day after post)

I have a 9 year age old lilgirl that 10 dec22 i do not have no money to buy her anything.and 4 more girl that or 8,3 and some twins girl that 6 two boy that 3 and 9mon we in need for christmas time i do not have.a dime but i have love for my children.and that all we need so if no one can help us thank your anyway and let god bless your to.
name is johneshia is 9.
esterneshia is 8
keishia and is 6
joseph is 3
keeira is 2
mickey is 9 mon and my name ella you can call me at

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lreed109 offline Verified User (10 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
US | 10 months, 2 weeks ago (3 weeks, 3 days after post)

Hello, My son and I will not have a Christmas this year. I’m still playing catch up on the bills. I just found out a few months ago that my husband was on crack cocaine. I’m in the process of moving and the new house that me and my son will be moving into does not have a stove or a refigerator. I have to find both of them first. I dont have the money to send my son to a daycare. So, I have decided to try to work from home. I’ve been going to the libray on popular. I found a job a real job that I can work from home. I have got to try to save some money fro a computer. I have been going to walmart, kmart, target, and best buy to price a computer. They are very expensive to me. Seeing that I cant hardly afford to put diapaer on my son. If there is anyone out there that has a heart for a family in need please contact me by phone 901-251-9439 or email me at (email removed).

I just got married March 27th of this year. As soon as I said I do that’s when my husband began to start stealing from me and my son. Taking all of the bill money. I dont want to get on welfare. That’s why I need some help with purchasing a computer. So, I will be able to take care of my son. I had to put my husband out of my home because it got to they point that he wanted to put his hands on me. The only thing I could think about is my son seeing me getting abused. It was not a hard decision to make for me. Because I love my son more than I love my husband. I know most women in my situtation this would be a hard decision to make. When I heard my son yelling and scareming for me that was enough for me.

I just want the opportunity to start a fresh start for me and my son. My son is only 16 months old. So, I have a long way to go. I believe that I have a preacher on my hands. If so I want to be able to provide the best for him.

Thank you,
Veda

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nicoledonaldson offline Verified User (10 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Burlington, ON, CA | 10 months, 2 weeks ago (3 weeks, 6 days after post)

Hi, I was just surfing the internet and read your story. I am sorry that you are having a difficult time. I wish there was a miracle that could take place for you at this moment.
I know this may be strange, but I have an opportunity of a lifetime that you will never have to go back to this sad place your in.
This is no sales call, or investment etc…just sharing a chance to turn your life around. There isn’t any answer today, but what about next year at Christmas? Do you really want to be in the same place?
If you are open to talking to me, please email. or, if now doesn’t feel right, keep this email for a day you are ready.
I am a mother of two young boys under three and they are my little treasures and I know how hard this may be for you right now. We aren’t well off right now either and we are just lucky that they are at the age where they don’t understand.
If I don’t hear from you, I hope you have a wonderful Christmas. I think that creating a Christmas that is traditional would be the answer. Making cards and doing a gift exchange of why you love one another. Perhaps, make it in to a surprise in the cards etc…just get creative and tell them that Christmas is more about traditional giving. this could be your best Christmas ever.
I hope you aren’t offended by me wanting to share this opportunity, I just know how it has changed my life and others. All the best to you, god bless all of you.

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lreed109 offline Verified User (10 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
US | 10 months, 2 weeks ago (3 weeks, 6 days after post)

Thank you very much Nicoledonaldson I really appreciate your kind words. That really made me feel good. I have been just having a very hard time lately. But, like you said things will get better. I just have to keep my head up and keep god first. I can’t go wrong. It’s just that it seem the harder that I try to do the right thing thats when another optical comes my way. But, I know that I’m a very strong individual and I can’t give up I have a little man to rise. He depends on my every move and make that I make. When ever you want you can give me a call 901-251-9439. I live in Memphis, TN how is the weather were you are? I know that is very very cold here it was 37 degress last night I thought that it was going to snow.

Thanks,
Veda
Keep me and my little one in prayers
God Bless you and yours as well

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nicoledonaldson offline Verified User (10 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Burlington, ON, CA | 10 months, 2 weeks ago (3 weeks, 6 days after post)

Oh, I know what obstacles can be like. Life can be extremely challenging. But, it can get better too. What time zone are you in? I’m EST, when is the best time to reach you?
Well I am amazed by this site, I never knew of it. It’s great for people to reach out and share.

Nicole :)

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sexy_4zz_b1tch_j35 offline Verified User (10 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
US | 10 months, 1 week ago (4 weeks after post)

i am in the same spot as you are i when to the salvation army and they could not help i dont have the info they need so they would not help and the local churches or clubs american legion or elks or mooses wont help so what do i do now jessica from pennslyvina

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starrblue offline Verified User (10 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
US | 10 months, 1 week ago (4 weeks, 1 day after post)

iam a mother of 8 kids but i have six at home.i been taking care of them with the lord help whatwould i do with him. but this year i got in a weck at my job of ten year and thay will not pay me no ins money forthe weck on the job i got to got a lawer and its christmas like my kids can wait. so if anybody read this note please send me me a e-mail to let me kwom that its people still care doing this time of year. god bless. starr from dickinson,tx

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kelmors offline Verified User (10 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
US | 10 months, 1 week ago (1 month after post)

have you found help yet?

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Wartburg, TN, US | 10 months ago (1 month after post)

hi my name is linda i have a 15 year old son and a 8 year old handicaped little girl we don’t have the money to buy our kids nothing for chirstmas this year whould someone please help us if YOU CAN THANK YOU LINDA CRABTREE

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An Undisclosed Location | 10 months ago (1 month after post)

My heart goes out to all who have posted on here. I too am at a loss of how to tell my children that Santa will not be visiting our house this year. I have 5 children, my 3 teenagers understand but I have 4 year old twin daughters that do not. My heart breaks everytime they ask if it’s time for Santa to come soon because I know I can not afford to even put one single toy or article of clothing under the tree for them this year. often I just want to cry because they look at me with bright, hopeful eyes and ask when Santa is coming. I have tried to explain that Santa might not be able to come to our house this year, but they do not understand. I will keep all of you in my prayers, it is a hard year for many. God bless.

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Valley Forge, PA, US | 10 months ago (1 month, 1 week after post)

Hello my name is pauline coleman i live in phoenixville pa im having trouble with christmas this year i was wondering if you can help me with giving free gifts to my grandchildren i take care of my youngest grandchild is 12 and my other one is 14 and if you can write back and if u have any information please email me back at (email removed) soon as possible

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sherryred offline Verified User (10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
US | 10 months ago (1 month, 1 week after post)

i have a 10 yr old daughter who needs help for christmas my husband has lung cancer and i am in remission from breast cancer. any help please

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An Unknown Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (8 months, 2 weeks after post)

I would like help for christmas we are a family of 7 and my husband is the olny one working I have a child with mental retardation and she is blind of one eye she is 9 years old and my son had bipolardesis he has been in different collages hospitals and was send to utha for six months and is doing much better the rest of my kids are all girls there ages are 11,6 and 4 so please help us on this christmas so with all this chalenges could be out of the fun of christmas.
Thank You The Navarrete Family

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