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I’m very sorry to hear that.. is that why you have been depressed?

i lost one of my close friends too,
i saw the whole thing.
dont worry.
your not alone.
i dont think anyone ever is.
its going to take time.
Promise.

be sure that shes watching down on you, she wouldnt want you to feel depressed and move on with your life , just leave that little space in your heart a that special person :)

for that **

what? that is very sad - prayers are with you in this time

I lost my closet friend on Memorial Day and she was the only one i felt who truly knew me, I’ve felt lost since that day. I dont talk to people because i dont want to get close to anyone to have them leave me the same way she did. The truest thing that a person said to me is take it one day at a time that is all you really can do.

Ahh I understand your last post a little better now.
I am so sorry you ost someone so close to you, feeling this way can be normal after a loss and it is called grief, people grieve in their own way and you need to find yours. Maybe writeing a letter to her telling her exactly how you felt/feel about her and how you feel now she is gone and then find a way you feel comfortabe with of letting the letter go, either by keeping it in a safe place or burying it in a favourite spot she used to go etc
Just try to open it up to yourself and never try to deny how you feel it will only make you angry and can lead to more severe depression later on in life.
I wish you well and I hope you find a way to let her go.

i remember the parents of my friend that past away.
at the funeral the mom and dad were smiling.
and i wished they would cry but they didnt.

they said it was because they were happy for their daughter.
she was in a better place than any of us.
with no sin.
or pain.
or sadness.

thats when i realized i must be happy too.
i hope this makes you fell better.

Adnilre , at least it makes me feel better :)
my grandma is in a comma now , and shes probably gonna pass away tomorrow according to the doctors ,she has been suffering for 2 years now(cancer) , and i know that when she leaves us , she is going to be in a better place….ive learned to get passed that and be happy for her , eventhough it tears me up inside ….
thanks for sharing :)

your welcome.
everyone has to go through that kind of pain.
and nobody ever said it was going to be easy.

i hope your grandma has a easy passing.
becasue i know they cant hold it forever.
i pray for your family and friends
and hope her departure brings your family closer.

glad i could help.
*crying is not a sin…so cry all you want…somehow it makes you fell better*

I know that, crying is actually and outlet , it really does make a person feel better , but instead of crying im gonna learn to be happy for her and be happy that she isnt suffering anymore and she wouldnt want me to be unhappy…:)
its just the first time in the family someone passes away , and i never experienced it , its hard ..i mean my grandpa died when i was 5 but i dont remember any of it …
nyway thanks again :D

I feel really sorry for you! :(
I know what it’s like to lose someone you think you can only tell them anything, rather than anyone else.

I’m sorry. I know your pain as I have lost many friends, and some of them very close!

I hope time helps. There is nothing anyone can say to make it hurt less ~sighs~

Im so sorry for your loss.

Post a reply sory for having lost your friend but what i say that is gods plans you will get other friends i can as well be your friend reply from you plus your email may god bless you

am sorry for ur loss. but i lost a friend yesterday as well and the worst thing is i never had the chance to tell her i love u or ever tell her that she is my bestfriend :(

I an terribly sorry.
=(

I lost my best friend on Sunday night to diabetes,stroke and kidney failure. I can’t even are this pain. Thankyou to all that have been posting and esp thanks for your positive posts. I’m at that point where I’m finding it so hard to believe that she can see me. I really hope that there is Heaven. Oh man, you can see the state I’m in. Thanks for listening.

i know its the most davistating feeling but trust me everyday passes it’ll be better than the one before.. u jus chear up .. i dnt thnk ur best friend want u to feel sad… hope he or she is in a better place.. keep the faith