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umm… if you love him… why the hell are you not finding help for him. of course smoking pot ***** up your brain and mood and personality. he’s most likely suffering from depression. you need to seek help yourself and get some professional help on how to get him help too.

I smoke pot, and I can say this is abnormal. Weed doesn’t make you retarded, it relaxes you and makes everything funny. Ask your boyfriend what’s wrong.

Smoking heavy amounts will it makes you lathargic in all aspects of your life .until you get off again then its all smiles and party … you come down then its depression.

hmm, forget this guy and his issues..what is YOUR major damage? Why in the world are you with, or would you wanna be with, a guy like you are describing..self-centered, self-absorbed, cold, inconsiderate, off-putting, etc, etc.?

Yep, no one else has realized it, but this is not about the Boyfriend, this is about finding out what issues you have that make you accept this type of behaviour.

And just to address the pot thing, what does it matter why he treats you badly, the bottom line is he treats you badly…no matter what you find to blame it on.

Good luck, hope this gets your gears turning.

It sounds like he is depressed, he’s probably self-medicating. If he can’t love himself he won’t be too able to love anyone else, he needs to quit or cut down and maybe talk to someone about how he feels.

My boyfriend used to smoke pot all the time, and he treated me horribly, I threatened to leave him several times before he straightened up his act, he actually quite smoking for me. not something I expected, though I did want it. I’m sorry you had to deal with it as long as you have, the fact that he’s trying to figure himself out, kinda makes me think it might be ok for you in the end, but he may just end up not coming back and smoking his life away, either way you should move on, find some one new who treats you wonderfully, and let your ex watch you being happy, then he’ll either realize his mistake, or not care, if he realizes his mistake, he’ll quit smoking and come back and treat you better, if he doesn’t care then he never loved you anyway and its good that you got out of the relationship when you did.

you can keep on loving someone for almost always if u want…but in a different way if that makes sense. keep on loving and love yourself the most :) peace.

I’m sorry, I didn’t actually read the post, I just laughed at the title! (I am so insensitive today!)

smokers believe everythings funny in there eyes which are red from the blood being pumped harder thru them this is not a relaxed state for the body only the mind which is being deceived into thinking there calm wait till the dope runs out

Dude, you’ve clearly never smoked before.

Psst… this post was made over a year ago, lol.