Love help: Me and my cousin are really close (so I think) and our boyfriends were best friends. - Help.com

Give her time. You said that you and your cousin are close, so I believe she will be back in touch with you again.
I can’t predict when, but just give her some time for now. Don’t worry yourself sick over it and fall into a depression.
You are more important to her than some boyfriend anyway. You 2 are cousins. Not just friends. She hasn’t forgotten you. Everything will work out for the better. Just give it some time.

For now, I want you to think positive thoughts. Not negative ones. You cannot know for sure what your cousin is thinking or what she is going to do. So just remain positive and remember . . . she is your cousin and nothing can change that. Also, she has many good memories with you too. So don’t give up on her.

*hug*

new problem, she is now talking to me but is now not with her boyfriend. Last time they broke up me and my bf eventually broke up because she felt upset whenever she saw me and josh (my bf) together, and i am scared this will happen again. how should i resolve this so we dont brake up but i also dont fall out with my cousin again?

Blood should always come before guys…tell them they either need to work their differences out, or they are just going to have to deal with being around each other…Tell her that you are sorry, and that you two should not be fighting just because your boyfriends are mad at each other…Age also matters, if you are young, you may not even spend the rest of your lives together…if your boyfriends really cared about the both of you, they would not be letting you two fight with each other…..that may tell you something!!