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My sis has a boyfriend (my ex) my mum and dad dont like and yesterday i saw her with him.

My parents told her to never see him again. my sis is so happy with him. I want to get revange on her for taking my boyfriend and if i do she’ll kill me or should i just not tell my parents and forget i ever saw her with him.

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rairai13 offline Verified User (2 years) Long Term User Shouts: 0 Add Friend #
US | 2 years ago (3 minutes after post)

Oka I think that you shouldnt tell your parents imagine if it was you. But I think u need to find out why your parents dont like him an why ur sister do. Then maybe that should help you decide. But if I was you I would find another way to get back at her

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Mutilatedwonderland offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 Add Friend #
Pittsburgh, PA, US | 2 years ago (8 minutes after post)

Well, if she’s happy with him…

You can’t help who you love or just have feelings for; I’m experiencing this the hard way. Be a sister and let them be happy together… even if it hurts. Support your sister, and be proud that you have the power - if that boy ever hurts your sis - to get revenge on him.

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rairai13 offline Verified User (2 years) Long Term User Shouts: 0 Add Friend #
US | 2 years ago (9 minutes after post)

yea wat he or she said!

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Strum, WI, US | 2 years ago (13 minutes after post)

just be happy for your sister. its not like you are still with him. he is free game. just back your sister up and one day she will do the same for you

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Amsterdam, 07, NL | 2 years ago (36 minutes after post)

Kind of harsh both ways. You two broke up for a reason right? Meaning he wasn’t perfect for you.

Your sister isn’t being very loyal to you. Neither your ex boyfriend. I understand your frustration! What do they say about the matter? Do they show any understanding? As long as they don’t rub it in your face you don’t realy have anything to say about the matter. Hard but true :S

It’s kind of a bold and the beautiful story-line don’t you think?

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An Undisclosed Location | 2 years ago (52 minutes after post)

I know I might be a little too late but I’m gonna give my advice anyway.I know revenge is a sweet thing but not now. however I do believe that if you think ur ex will hurt ur sister in any way, you might just have to alert her, quick and only once and leave the rest to her. that way u’ll be counted as the good one too. plus dont tell ur parents anythin unless absolutely necessery for example if he hits her or somethin. hopefully ur sister is grown enough to make the right decision.

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Dan TL offline Verified User (2 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 Add Friend #
La Mirada, CA, US | 2 years ago (2 hours, 44 minutes after post)

I’d just leave it alone, If she gets in trouble its her fault.

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