Males (Boys..).
And their behavior. So, here’s my situation at the moment. I have this male… friend. He’s the most attractive, and the most interesting person I have ever met, and, of course, I really like him. He knows. However, his behavior changes so often, I have no idea what he actually wants. At one point, he’s treating me as a friend… a guy friend to whom you can go for girl trouble. A few minutes later… or the next time we hang out, it’s pretty random… he treats me like he’s interested. Then he acts all emo and tells me he doesn’t treat me well enough…(which by the way also makes me emo: I’m somewhat empathetic, and when someone around me gets very emotional, I tend to echo it, unless I really focus on not doing that, and if I go emo, I start feeling a bit guilty for not giving him his space….) and then he goes back to talking about video games and various things. And then, for the last few times, he hangs out with me but he spends the first ten minutes or so complaining about hanging out with me… which has really been pissing me off. A lot. My problem is, I guess, is that I really want to turn the tables. I want him to chase me. However, I have never learned how females do it. How do you attract guys? I mean, on purpose, when you just want to mess with their head? And how do you make them interested and keep them interested? I know this seems weird- usually this is passed on mother to daughter, or girl to girl… but I’ve really, never done it. I’ve always been rather antisocial, and so far in all my relationships, which have been very few, I have been very straightforward with my feelings. So… What do I do about him? And about my idea?
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Males. And their behavior. So, here’s my situation at the moment. I have this male… friend. He’s the most attractive, and the most interesting person I have ever met, and, of course, I really like him. He knows. However, his behavior changes so often, I have no idea what he actually wants. At one point, he’s treating me as a friend… a guy friend to whom you can go for girl trouble. A few minutes later… or the next time we hang out, it’s pretty random… he treats me like he’s interested. Then he acts all emo and tells me he doesn’t treat me well enough…(which by the way also makes me emo: I’m somewhat empathetic, and when someone around me gets very emotional, I tend to echo it, unless I really focus on not doing that, and if I go emo, I start feeling a bit guilty for not giving him his space….) and then he goes back to talking about video games and various things. And then, for the last few times, he hangs out with me but he spends the first ten minutes or so complaining about hanging out with me… which has really been pissing me off. A lot. My problem is, I guess, is that I really want to turn the tables. I want him to chase me. However, I have never learned how females do it. How do you attract guys? I mean, on purpose, when you just want to mess with their head? And how do you make them interested and keep them interested? I know this seems weird- usually this is passed on mother to daughter, or girl to girl… but I’ve really, never done it. I’ve always been rather antisocial, and so far in all my relationships, which have been very few, I have been very straightforward with my feelings. So… What do I do about him? And about my idea?
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