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ok Here’s how it is, everytime i kiss someone or do

anything the next morning i wake up and for the whole day im wrecked with guilt, for no reason, i dont understand why. has anyone experianced the same problem? or know whats going on??

please help me out here!!

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Dan TL offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
La Mirada, CA, US | 2 years ago (8 minutes after post)

Maybe your guilty for yourself, that you didn’t want to do the things you did but you did them anyways ?

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2 years ago (35 minutes after post)

well.. for example yesterday i didnt do anything, i was with a friend and was just liying down with 7 girls, really enjoying myself just flirting and stuff and i felt guilty as **** this morning

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Anonymous #
2 years ago (36 minutes after post)

*liying down with 7 girls, didnt meen to write just

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Dan TL offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
La Mirada, CA, US | 2 years ago (38 minutes after post)

You don’t have a GF do you ?

Could it be that you see your persona as the person who doesn’t do that, and you did that ? Where you deceiving, or keeping somthing from somone ?

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spiritedsoul offline Verified User (2 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
Sandgate, G5, GB | 2 years ago (50 minutes after post)

I experience them as well.

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rightfoot123 offline Verified User (2 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years ago (4 hours, 5 minutes after post)

nope no girl friend. its got to the point that i actually dont do anything cos im thinking in the morning… im gona feel like S**t i wasnt deceiving, their always willing i never do anything bad…

the only thing i can think of is that mabye because im not wildy attracted to them or i think im leading them… but im not, they never think that im gona make a relationship out of anything… i dont knowim really confused

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rightfoot123 offline Verified User (2 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years ago (4 hours, 6 minutes after post)

whops there goes the anonymousness

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oddmajor offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
CA | 1 year, 10 months ago (2 months, 2 weeks after post)

I definately agree with Dan TL (the first post). Maybe you have to figure out how you want to see yourself in situations like this and then work towards acting by your own rules. I know that sometimes there’s an inclination towards just going with the flow. Seems like you’re very sensitive (I don’t mean it in a bad way), so think about how you could take better control of future situations to avoid hurting yourself and the other people :)

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