Love help: I was engaged last year after 4 years together , almost a month

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I was engaged last year after 4 years together , almost

a month ago we quarreled because i feel that his work is more important than our relationship . It hurts him when I said break-up words .. i actually said that out of anger which now i regeretted . He did not want to meet since and he rejected my call , he did not reply my text even after i apologised sincerely and let him know that I still wanna be with him . I went to his house and ask his family or friends .. to no avail . He ususally never ignores me like this and I am dying to know if we are still together . I really want to save the relationship if possible .. but I’m not sure what the best thing to do , should I find him at his workplace . Please help to advise me urgently because I feel very sad and can’t stop thinking of him . It’s affecting my daily activities and I can’t go on like this .

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AKITHMA 8 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years ago (6 minutes after post)

Run girl run he maybe suffering 4 nothing

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An Undisclosed Location | 2 years ago (12 minutes after post)

Im sure if he still loves you everthing will be fine he needs to here your truth dont hesistate ..saying sorry helps.

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novilem 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years ago (22 minutes after post)

thank you for your instant reply .. i’m afraid he still feel hurts and is very mad at me .. seeing me at his workplace out of sudden gonna make it worst and push him to the edge especially if he’s very stressed with work problems rite now .. should i just send him ’sorry’ card and wait for him to contact me ?

Cannonball Girl 3 #
Susanville, CA, US | 2 years ago (56 minutes after post)

send him a hand written note..not really long, but explain yourself and that your sorry in a few short scentences.

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AKITHMA 8 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years ago (1 hour, 11 minutes after post)

Dont explain why your mad just how u feel about him work on the rest later when he calms down .

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An Undisclosed Location | 2 years ago (1 hour, 15 minutes after post)

I still think its ok 2 see him be breif though.

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AKITHMA 8 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years ago (1 hour, 16 minutes after post)

tell him u luv him ur really sorry ,can we meet later to talk

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AKITHMA 8 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years ago (1 hour, 17 minutes after post)

Good luck with it akithma

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Hereford, F7, GB | 2 years ago (5 hours, 44 minutes after post)

He will come around just give him some time
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Anonymous edited this post 2 years ago. Read the previous text »

Hi please advise what I should do now .. I and boyfriend have been together for 5 years , 2 weeks ago we quarreled coz he’s too occupied with work stress and I said break-up words to him which i actually didn’t mean to say . He felt hurts .. he refused to meet me since then , he didn’t answer my call nor reply my message even after i apologised and texted him how sorry I am and that I still wanna be with him . I couldn’t find him at his house and i tried not to ask his family or friends . This is the first time he is not answering me and I really want to know if we are still together or not . I love him very much and want to save the relationship if possible . But I’m not sure what the best thing to do now or if I should go to find him at his workplace . Please please reply me urgently coz I feel very very sad now and can’t stop thinking of him .. it’s affecting my daily life so much and I don’t want to go on like this . Thank you

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Hi please advise what I should do now .. I and boyfriend have been together for 5 years , 2 weeks ago we quarreled coz he’s too occupied with work stress and I said break-up words to him which i actually didn’t mean to say . He felt hurts .. he refused to meet me since then , he didn’t answer my call nor reply my message even after i apologised and texted him how sorry I am and that I still wanna be with him . I couldn’t find him at his house and i tried not to ask his family or friends . This is the first time he is not answering me and I really want to know if we are still together or not . I love him very much and want to save the relationship if possible . But I’m not sure what the best thing to do now or if I should go to find him at his workplace . Please please reply me urgently coz I feel very very sad now and can’t stop thinking of him .. it’s affecting my daily life so much and I don’t want to go on like this . Thank you

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