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My friend, got mad at me because I said (stfu) to her, But i actually didn’t, and now she isn’t talking to me or replying my emails or anything.

And i really want us to be friends and not be in a fight. What do i do? Please help. And the real problem is that i never even said (stfu) to her! It was my friend saying it as a joke. And now i’m mad at one friend and one friend is mad at me. Now i feel really bad and just don’t want to face either of them again and just forget that i’m alive.
Please help me.

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hiphop_dancer offline Verified User (3 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 years, 2 months ago (58 minutes after post)

Well, the first thing to remember. If they are really your friends. They are not going to leave you. They are just in a mood right now. I would just give your friend some space. And let him/her calm down. Then when him or her is ready they will come up and talk to you.

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Spagz offline Verified User (3 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 23 #
An Unknown Location | 3 years, 2 months ago (1 day, 1 hour after post)

Listen to HipHop dancer, they need a little space to calm down. Once that is over talk to them both individually and then talk to them both together and hope for the best. Things should go back to normal.

All those little fights may seem important right now but in the future they will seem funny. Try and stay relaxed and don’t think about ending your life please. Its not worth getting depressed over.

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MY MAN IS... offline Verified User (3 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 years, 2 months ago (3 days, 23 hours after post)

Just like Spagz said listen to hiphop dancer. Just give them space for a while and then when u think they clamed down a little bit just do up to them and just talk it out.

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Lilly2Lol offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 3 years, 1 month ago (2 weeks, 1 day after post)

Tell her you are soooo sorry and that you’ll make it up to her and tell her you really miss her as a friend and still want to be friends with her. If she still continues to not talk to you and such then just move on and after a while she will beging for your friendship.

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i_love_david offline Verified User (3 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 years, 1 month ago (3 weeks, 1 day after post)

well i would talk to her or get some one else to talk to her for you and tell her you dindt say that stuff

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mandyj offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 3 years ago (2 months, 1 week after post)

im in kind of the same situation, i was ill on friday and my friend was having a little moan about something, and when i told him my problems he ended up having a go, so i told him to forget everything ive said and dont bother listening to me, now its sunday and still not heard from him, ive been really miserable without him and hes my bestest friend in the whole wide world, i feel like ive got a limb missing or something, we talk to each other about everything, and to think hes not talking to me is just upsetting, i think about him everyday, ive tried texting him, but no reply, i get drunk so i can sleep instead of worry about it, im hoping to see him tomorrow, and sort it out if not, well i suppose ive just got to keep my chin up and carry on as normal without him, that thought makes me sad but hey i’ll get by and make another friend, but if that happens i’ll never forget him, he was my rock

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i_hate_thi offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 9 months ago (1 year, 5 months after post)

let of her, she’s not worth it, you’ll find a better friend!

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